I'm about to throw my Juno movie in the trash if my husband says one more time "why don't we adopt" after looking…

yes ma'am

I don't want to question him ever again, that's why I'm not adopting @smb_mommy

lol ok @justine_kim

dont ever question God. he knew something was wrong with that child or whatever the case was. he is working on you. please don't loose hope in anything. im so sorry 😞

lol nooo send it to me. i love that movie

thank you @christimary0

What's selfish is being selfless and adopting a child, going through 2 years back and forth giving the mother chance after chance, only to get your child, sign the adoption papers and 30 days later God takes your child away from you, then question faith. @smb_mommy

I'd like to adopt. But I'm already getting to experience having my own child. So now I'm thinking that with the next kid i might like to experience the adoption process. But I wouldn't have even considered adopting prior to my pregnancy. I think it's absolutely not selfish of you in any way to want that experience of being pregnant and giving birth and raising your own child. Maybe you'll want to adopt after you get to experience your own pregnancy. Who knows! I hope you get your bundle of joy soon. 💙

I totally understand , exactly God has a plan and reason for things in our lives , so just tell him that that's not what you want and that you will get pregnant took me a year with my angel baby and I thought i wasn't able to have anymore kids after my daughter because it took so long and I am trying for my rainbow baby and it will probably take some time but it will happen :)

in my opinion that's kinda selfish but i understand you want your own child....

Not in his plans @smb_mommy and if it is then I'll ignore them and just live without a child and just have my fur-babies thank you @_jfelder_ and @countrymama121 for understanding. Something tragic happened and I will not adopt. I have my reasons and God knows my reasons so I know he is not going to put that in my path.

Im adopted and understand I don't want to adopt I want my own child with my husband sometimes men don't understand we want that connection of being pregnant and growing our own child

you're not being selfish. my brother and sister in law feel the same way and i don't know if I would either if I was in the same position. I don't think its bad. there's plenty of children to be adopted, yes, but adoption is not the route for some people.

maybe God's choice for u. there r so many babies to be adopted