my boyfriend left his phone in my car yesterday, so yeah I went through it...he don't have a lock code on it...however I checked his fb messenger and he has been flirting with other females...he says he never touched them that's far as it went...I wanna believe him because I love this man so much he the father of my child I wanted to one day marry him....I call myself breaking up with him, but I'm already missing him like crazy...I don't want no other man...should I suck it, and make him sweat a little and then give him another chance I know he loves me...I know men will be flirty, I can too. but not where it's noticeable, because it's like doing it in my face...granted he don't have lock code, I do but he knows it's his birthday...so not for you salty girls who are lonely and miserable....more of the women who been in my situation, or who is married...I need some advice please...I'm due in September and really want him there staying with me in late August in case he have to drive me....
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you got this vent it out feel hurt and make him sweat if you need to ... relationships go through tough times... this too shall pass no need to worry about if it happens again we cannot control the future or another's actions ... the hurt will fade away slowly but surely especially if he has achieved his act right from the scare off losing you
@naomiedgd, thanks...I've agreed to have Breakfast with him tomorrow so we can talk.
My fiance was flirting with another girl when we would get into arguments and not talk for a while. his excuse was that he didn't want to be alone and just did it so he wouldn't mope about me not being with him. i told him how i felt it wasn't okay and that i didn't know if i could trust him. he broke down and told me he doesnt want to lose me and im the only girl he wants he just didn't want to go through losing me alone which i understood. i forgave him. especially since we weren't talking when he did it and I've noticed him acting a lot different in a good way. less arguments and snippy attitute w him. it's nice now.
he's apologize and stated he was wrong, and wouldn't happen again...but I just want to be mad at him right now and make him know what he about to lose...I believe in second chances....and I may give him one...but I just needed to vent and needed some advice..but at the end of the day it is decision...I'm just upset right now.
i wrote ... will he do it again and next time take it further then the inbox ? ........ that was a question not a statement
@lilkountryma, when I say men will be men I am saying I know he they will be flirty, but you right it's an not excuse.@nayaxo, thanks hun, I appreciate that.
I think you have your mind made up already by you simply saying that you don't want to hear from salty women and their opinion it's obvious to me you're choosing not to leave so instead set your standard if you're hurt communicate that if you're not ready to fully forgive yet then communicate that as well @trevae either way the best thing you can do is make sure that he hears how you feel and see if he's willing to take responsibility and make it right again
@dcsmommy257, thank you...imma make he sweat a little...@babygirl10-11, go back and read what you wrote again...that was a statement with a question mark at the end...I don't know if it would go further I hope not...maybe it's how you word it, it sounded salty hun.
Before me & my husband got married the same thing happened he left his phone in my car & when I dropped him off I noticed it & went through it. I found him talking to other females & stuff , I was mad but we talked about it & decided to give him another chance . Since then he hasn't done it we live together & now married . Just cause he did it once don't mean he'll do it again .
I know you love him. That saying is bull lol. Men will not be men. Being a man doesn't justify disrespecting someone you love. That said if he's apologized and you can forgive him I'd give him a second chance!
@lilkountryma, it's not just about the ride to hospital...I love this man...men will be men I'm a woman enough to know that...he has apologize...but I don't consider it cheating, but I'm hurt that I saw it.
@babygirl10-11, I'm not asking for help asking for advice from women that have experience what I'm going through. ...you're being salty by saying he will do it again instead of saying maybe...thanks but no thanks
OK so.. Definitely shouldn't stay with him just because he'll be your ride to the hospital. That's not a relationship. I say sit down as adults and really talk this out. Giving him another chance is completely up to you. We all make mistakes but if you think he is going to continue to disrespect you or do it again I'd leave him. No one deserves to be mistreated That way.
I feel like once a cheater always a cheater. But not always!! Listen to your heart since u r due soon u should try to work it out if he does it again then give up. Guys can be pigs sometimes they just don't think before they act. Best wishes to you and your family!
nobody can really help you with this decision it all up to YOU ... but will he do it again and next time maybe take it futher then just the inbox ?
thanks mommies I appreciate the advice..