@mgutierrez, were always going to defend our kids no matter what and that isn't bad but we also have to be fair and he does to rather he likes it or not. We're supposed to love our step kids the same way we love our kids but the other partner has to cooperate as well. He can't put ur kids aside and act like there not his responsibility when they are. No matter what if he decided to be with you since day one knowing u have other kids then your kids are his responsibility as well and he has to be fair so matter what.

I was at the store and I opened the front door and saw my son sitting at the door I didn't give him time to say anything just started telling bh stuff cause my kids never come in well he never allows them to my hubby was asleep so idk if my son even asked him

I have two kids that aren't my husbands and we have a newborn together. I have my step daughter. So in total we have 4 girls. My oldest is 5. Then it's his daughter, she's 3 then it's my daughter she's 2 and then our newborn last. I always tell him that everything between the kids has to even! No matter what it has to be fair! His daughter does not know how to share and she throws fits sometimes over toys. Which is why I tell him he has to teach her because my girls know how to share. I'm always worried that it may cause worse problems for us but everything has to be EVEN period. There's no such thing as she gets this and they don't or one gets it better No! I don't allow that because it's not fair.

So your son wanted to watch the movie to? And he didn't let him or what exactly happen? @vgutierrez No your not wrong for defending for kids.

He's 7 but ma and him have been together 5 years married 3 and I've always taught my kids that aren't his to stay out of my room cause they like to go through stuff me and him also have a 2 yr old so the baby mom dropped the kid off last night and I come home while his kid is laying on my room floor watching a movie while my son who is not his is sitting out side my door trying to watch the movie to and I blew up talkin shit so he got up and started packing his stuff it just bothered me so bad .. Am I wrong ladies I have 3 kids that aren't his then we have one together and one on the way. I haven't even heard from him at all AM I WRONG @floresselene

It's so hard to keep a happy face with my kids I hate feeling like this but it's for the best Iam hoping

How old is his son?

I have a step daughter as well. So I feel you. 😕 we had our ups and downs to.

Oh nooo 😞 I'm sorry about that. I hope he comes back to you. Stay strong though. For your baby 💕