ladies please tell me its just my hormones but; me & my partner havent been as close as we normally…

if there are some things that comcern u than maybe u should talk to him hunn..xx

He should be supporting you not texting other girls! Confront him about it. Try not to stress out. Tell him how you feel xx

im too embarrassed to speak to him about it incase its nothing :( xx

I have mentioned and dropped hints about the fact that i feel that he doesnt want to be with me but he just keeps telling me to stop being stupid xx

are you shitting me? he would be gone!

I had that with my fiancé and I spoke to him more then once and I can honestly say it made me feel worse for 2 reasons 1-he denied it and 2-it got me angry coz I had the proof.....my advise go with your gut and talk to him but whatever the outcome don't stress out xx

my boyfriend of 5 years went through a faze of sneaking around on the Internet talking to other girls I was pregnant at the time, he was watching porn while I was asleep and hardly touched me, everytime I questioned him he got angry I felt so scared and insecure worried he went off me was going to cheat or wanted to cheat or leave me, it made me feel ugly and not good enough cos I gave him my everything told him everything about me gave him my heart devoted my life to him he was my world so it broke my heart I couldn't keep quite cos it didn't feel right I needed to know where I stand I hated it when he lied to me that was the worst part of it all because then I new I'd have to argue with him an I felt bad enough with out arguing about it as well all I wanted was him to come clean and say like "yes sorry I'm feeling shit an needed a ego massage so spoke to other girls" or "okay I'm sorry I done it yes but now I see how hurt you are it won't ever happen again" that's all I wanted, but I think he found it hard to admit because he felt embarrassed and ashamed it's a really nasty thing to do to somebody who loves you so obviously it's not easy to come clean but after the last time I see naked pictures of other women on his phone I literally didn't even argue with him I just sat in front of him in silence while tears streamed down my face he looked at me grabbed me said he was so so sorry to hurt me like that he didn't even realise how much it hurt me he didn't realise I even cared that much of loved him that much to be that hurt and I could see in his face with out him even saying any of that that he was genuinely sorry, I could tell it hit him and he was scared I new everything he had over stepped the mark and was scared he was going to loose me for good only when it got to that point did it stop! two years on and to my knowledge he hasn't done anything like that since (in my mind now he's hurt me I still find it hard to believe and I think he's still upto no good he has lost my trust but not my love so I still think he does it but he's better at it an I don't find out) but I just hope he is being truthful cos then I'm glad I didn't give up on him, I like to think one day I'll trust him again, he deleted his Facebook and that was the main thing he hurt me on xx

@katrainbird, that is exactly how it is ans how im feeling. he watches porn while im asleep or in the bath or even just downstairs. i cant bring myself to tell him i know. i just cry and he asks why. i cant go on like it much longer. so fed up of feeling this way and feeling like im just not good enough xxx

He'd be out that door!!! He's with you shouldn't need to talk to any other girl or watch porn for that matter..you deserve better!

@lottiekingstone, I honestly felt worse keeping it to my self, I was going over and over it in my head feeling not good enough feeling undesired ugly insecure scared I was feeling so many emotions, us girls are emotional anyway and with hormones running high in pregnancy, if you really can't face talking to him just send him a text tell him what you know and how it makes you feel, he should understand any decent man would understand just say your with me now you can't cary on like your single it's me you our baby our family or nothing, scare him let him think you'll leave him make him makes the choice and decent man would choose him women and baby if not then I agree your better off with out him xxx