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Мама сына (1 год)

Okay weird question anyone ever deal with something like this

Okay weird question anyone ever deal with something like this


about six months after our son was born I told my husband that I was wanting to have another child so that our wasn't an only child. Now that our son is one I was thinking that maybe we could try for our second child. now my my husband saying he is content with just our son and really doesn't want another.


Am I being selfish by being upset about this? yes our son has been lots of work but it took 9years before we had gotten pregnant with him and I always wanted at least two children, by my own womb or even adoption he's known this for the longest time and I feel he's being inconsiderate of my feelings after all these years.


anyone have any advice? TIA

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momdamost24

Lyndsey

I dont't think your being selfish at all.. But you two have different views right now , and I hope yal can get it resolve. I'M no counsler but I wish you the best.

_kcsteiner_

Cierra

Мама сына (1 год)

guess I didn't think of it that way....

kvleeks

versia

You are married so you both to take each other's feelings into consideration . It's a not he thing or an I thing it's about WE , in this case. Both of YOU! It has to come to an agreement or a middle ground somewhere ! Sending lots of love your way and I hope it works out 😍😍😍

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