Okay weird question anyone ever deal with something like this
about six months after our son was born I told my husband that I was wanting to have another child so that our wasn't an only child. Now that our son is one I was thinking that maybe we could try for our second child. now my my husband saying he is content with just our son and really doesn't want another.
Am I being selfish by being upset about this? yes our son has been lots of work but it took 9years before we had gotten pregnant with him and I always wanted at least two children, by my own womb or even adoption he's known this for the longest time and I feel he's being inconsiderate of my feelings after all these years.
anyone have any advice? TIA
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Next child
Speaking to my partner tonight about having our next child i ideally don't want another for a few years yet but he turned around and said only on one condition you have a c section ( i got a 3rd degree tear with Oliver) I actually don't want a c section but he said he won't have another child otherwise am I being unfair ? I loved my birth with Oliver i loved that feeling him being placed on me, but he said if I don't have a c section the next baby won't be with him :(
You are married so you both to take each other's feelings into consideration . It's a not he thing or an I thing it's about WE , in this case. Both of YOU! It has to come to an agreement or a middle ground somewhere ! Sending lots of love your way and I hope it works out 😍😍😍