Need advice! I'm six days pp n having "baby blues". My mom came down for my labor n helped me out some n was planning to stay but my mil said she would take care of me. Now that my moms gone I've been having worse anxiety, depression, and restlessness. She measked to go back down with her (6hrs away) for a week so she can take care of me n help with baby. It's more spacious at my moms house n I'd have peace only three people at my moms and there's 8 of us here at my in laws. I'm not sure if I should go for the week n be away for my husband would that be selfish?? I just can't handle all these random emotions!
@jensim82011, Don't feel bad and do what you have to do for your self. The first couple of weeks are really hard and you need all the support you can get.
Thanks guys i just feel so out of the norm n really want to get back to "me". @showersoverflowers @family_first01
I honestly think your not being selfish. pp depression is a bitch (excuse my language) do what's better for you because it is hard the first weeks. I think if it was me I would go. our husband's don't understand what we go thru
Do what you need to do for you hun. Your husband should be understanding of the new situation
She died
My mom passed away early this morning..
I will not be tested for COVID unless I am showing all signs of having it! They taking newborn babies away from their mothers if they test positive. Over my cold dead body! No ONE will take my baby away from me bet!
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
yes I'm a single mom and yes my daughter is going to have my last name I refuse to give my daughter the name of a BOY who doesnt want to take care of his responsibilities! ....problem ?
(Thread Closed) The world according to baby bump
Reasons why I should have my son taken away from me for neglect:
I just hope it goes away @mommyg3