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Need advice! I'm six days pp n having "baby blues". My mom came down for my labor n helped me out some n was planning to…

Need advice! I'm six days pp n having "baby blues". My mom came down for my labor n helped me out some n was planning to stay but my mil said she would take care of me. Now that my moms gone I've been having worse anxiety, depression, and restlessness. She measked to go back down with her (6hrs away) for a week so she can take care of me n help with baby. It's more spacious at my moms house n I'd have peace only three people at my moms and there's 8 of us here at my in laws. I'm not sure if I should go for the week n be away for my husband would that be selfish?? I just can't handle all these random emotions!

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showersoverflowers

C.

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)

Do what you need to do for you hun. Your husband should be understanding of the new situation

family_first01

maricruz Landeros

Мама двоих (младенец)

I honestly think your not being selfish. pp depression is a bitch (excuse my language) do what's better for you because it is hard the first weeks. I think if it was me I would go. our husband's don't understand what we go thru

jensim82011

jensim82011

Мама сына-младенца

Thanks guys i just feel so out of the norm n really want to get back to "me". @showersoverflowers @family_first01

mommyg3

Rita

@jensim82011, Don't feel bad and do what you have to do for your self. The first couple of weeks are really hard and you need all the support you can get.

jensim82011

jensim82011

Мама сына-младенца

I just hope it goes away @mommyg3

I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive…

I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. Deff thankful for my family atm. I will start to do eBay too . I have stuff i can sell... anything to help out alittle help my husband ... whatever i can do.