themommaoffour
Jasmine
Am I wrong for wanting to have my husband stay home and take care of our 3 girls when I give birth? he kept our oldest 2 when I had our 3rd and I called him literally after she came out right when she had had her first cry so he still heard it. I don't have much time to find someone to take all 3 girls and I feel safer with him just keeping them at home... is that bad? should I find a sitter for them so he can be there for our sons birth? I'm just curious what you ladies think
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its his first son that's probably why he wants to be there
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its his first son that's probably why he wants to be there
I would have him decide. If he wants to be there I think it would be wrong to deny him but if he doesn't mind then do what's easiest for you!!
Whatever works for your family is best. If he doesn't mind staying with the kids and you're okay with him not being there for the birth, then by all means take that route. I'm a person who avoids sitters at all cost, so I can understand why you'd want him to be home with the kids.
I would let him make that decision he may just be saying what he thinks you want him to so that you're happy or that you don't have to worry
he should be there it's his baby he doesn't have to spend the night
If he wants to be at the birth you need to find somebody you trust.
I would let him be there if he wants to
What would he prefer? If it's his first son he may want to be present. But if he doesn't mind then it works out.
I mean if he is okay with being home then there is nothing wrong with the! but if he wants to be there I would let him be!
I think he should be there, you only get to see him be born once.
he should definalty be at the birth! unless hes ok with staying home!