is it just me or is this just wrong? she lied to me and told me her baby had no heartbeat then she goes and tells…

I would have to ask people who have had stillbirths to know if that's a legit thing or not. Before delivering so prematurely I would say "yeah, that sounds pretty fake" but now I almost want to see if it could be legit, but I don't care enough to figure it out. Some people just lie because they crave attention. If that's the case, she needs to be seen by a professional. If it's the truth, then that's pretty sad. I'm sure she would be able to be straightforward and mention that the baby will be stillborn or have some sort of medical explication as to what's going on if it was true though.

Wow. I don't understand how women could even lie about their baby's like that.

wtf is wrong with people

Yeah that is so weird! I just stopped being friends with a really good friend of mine, who was more like a sister because of her lies. She told me she was pregnant like 3 months ago and I was so happy for her and we would just talk pregnancy stuff all the time. But then I would catch her in weird lies like if I asked what the baby's heart rate was she would tell me she didn't know, but then tell my sister she never heard the heartbeat. Then she said her BF attacked her and stomped her stomach trying to kill her baby and she went to hospital and baby was okay etc etc. and come to find out I talked to another good friend and he was like I took her to get an abortion right after she found out. I was like omg!!! I was so sick to stomach, I can't believe she dragged that lie on for so long with me, sending me ultrasound pictures and everything. Hanging out with me face to face etc. only a crazy person would do that and I don't trust her around me or my baby that is on the way.

yeah!! exactly It makes absolutely no sense to me

so shes almost due??? doesnt make any sense!!! i have also had 2 mc but babies passed on theirs own.

36 weeks

@korahleah_11, is correct. They can run different tests but with the pain I was in, the bleeding, and no heartbeat it was pretty much confirmed all on its own.

this is what she said in the messages above this one "Yes i am and i missed my doctors apmt and changed my mind about induceing it didnt feel right if my water dosent brake when im due then i go in August 3 to do it"

how far along is she suppose to be??

hmmm. it does sounds fishy tho.

exactly it makes no sense

I've miscarried twice. They couldn't find a heartbeat, did a couple of tests and then did a d&c. That's odd it took a week. With all the pain, they normally do a d&c pretty quickly..

and @mv92 I agree it's not something you like about and she sent pictures to the other girl of her belly and she doesn't look pregnant at all like she looks exactly the same as she did before she was pregnant

she told me they checked her at the e.r then had her appointment couple days later then had another and still nothing then magically weeks later it appears

and it depends on how along she is. alot of women get sonos and there is no heartbeat (because its too small to find). and then they go back and its there. (because duh babies grown) so it just depends.

well, usually if they cant find a heartbeat they wait about a week or so then check a again. they always double check. if theres no heartbeat the 2nd time then they give you your options

tf. Why would anyone lie about that? something must b wrong with her