Having a newborn is hard, but having older kids a husband and a newborn is harder!!! I'm so overwhelmed it's our first night home our kids are staying with family so it's just us and our baby. I know it's not going to be easy and that we'll get into a routine and learn to make things work as a new family of 5. I can't get my husband to understand that the baby picks up on his vibes, she's crying and he's holding her bouncing like a fool! I'm trying to tell him relax and all I get is yelled at! and then it's my fault like really. I don't have enough to deal with. my 2 older kids are ALREADY feeling left out cause I'm trying to catch up on much needed sleep, so I feel like a shitty mom to began with and now this fool who I should be able to depend on for any and everything. I feel like I've got the weight of the world on my shoulders and no end in sight.
YOU CAN DO IT. YOU ARE STRONG. DO NOT LET BABY BLUES KEEP YOU DOWN!!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

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I feel your pain I'm about to have my 3rd and my crazy boys are 2.5 and almost 5 all they do is ruff house and get into everything bother the dog it's a never ending battle I'm worried it will be crazy. But you'll get into a routine. Plus my husband counts as child sometimes 😂 lol