my husband WON'T have sex with me, we've done it 1 time since we last did it (14 weeks pregnant and…

will he let you give him oral?

Guys are weird. My SO said he'd have sex with me (this was Sunday) and I have yet to get anything 😑 he won't even let ME touch HIM. Like wtf man

@kambam, he used to. I haven't tried but I've noticed he has to be in control of his thing now

@bishop0301, he won't let me touch him either

I probably didn't have sex with my bf til months afer giving birth more so bc he was scared of having another baby so soon. I got pregnant while on birth control.

if you're not 7 weeks pp its probably because he doesn't want to get your pregnant.

idk im sure guys go through things too. I used to masturbate in front of my bf and usually it would make him wanna join. if not, boy bye! i got what i need lol. have you had a serious conversation about it?

@nichole_lynn, I am 7 weeks pp but when we had sex it was last week. I'm on birth control and bought 2 boxes of condoms for that reason

sorry!!! Totally read that all the wrong way. 😑 @lilbabyboy16

@kambam, yeah I have like 3 times

@lilbabyboy16 😓😓 what does he say about it?

That would really take a toll on my self esteem. You should talk to him about it.

@kambam, that he's always stressed or tired...he always told me he didn't want to our told me to stop. .. I said well might as well as pleasure myself then, he's all no don't do that.. I told him it felt like he's not even attracted to me like that anymore and he's all no I am and blah blah blah...

@alexislopez, I have ^^^ it jacks up my self esteem really bad

@lilbabyboy16 ugh. it sucks but all you can do is be patient or if someone can watch the baby maybe make a night of it. try to relax with a drink, dress sexy and help him unwind 😔 then hopefully he can help you unwind 😏 i hope you can work it out.