I thought the worse thing a man was capable of doing was cheat and lie.

How about not provide for his family causing a home to be lost and a family separated and being ok with not having a job living off a family member causing severe depression and loss of love from a wife or as my friend who just had her baby Monday is going through the father didn't show up for the birth claimed he worked a double and still hasn't shown up

It's that and be abusive. I don't know what else

What's worse?