This is what my MIL does. My son is six and a half weeks old and starting to learn how to self…
This is what my MIL does. My son is six and a half weeks old and starting to learn how to self soothe. But anytime she is here (which is for almost a week at a time with only a few days break in between), she does this. She waits for him to look even slightly uncomfortable and then scoops him up. If I wasn't in the room she would have done it by now. I need a break from her. I love her but I need a break. (She's seriously been with us all but two weeks since he's been born.)
Ashley·
В ожидании первенца
Talk with her if you feel comfortable enough to do that, or have your hubby say something! She's over stepping and needs a talking to if she cannot understand.
Mariah·
Мама сына-младенца
@expectingz, she doesn't speak English and since my husband was raised in Mexico he doesn't see the harm since "she raised three kids so she knows what she's doing." Yes, but those three kids slept in her bed until they were 7. ...
Kelly·
lol at you taking that pic.. you must really be fed up. I am so sorry you are going through this must be super frustrating.
Juju·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
she just love him so much don't mess that up for her, they gonna have a special bond. l have 5 kids 3 baby daddy l never had a mother in law who was ever there. All my labor started after midnight that first ring to my mom she up on her way to me to go to the hospital she been to all labor l wouldnt go with out her, my mom did all the cooking (she live 30 min away) and bring it over everyday, that kids to school everthing give me my hatian bath lol every nite while my MIL live less then 2min away never do nothing. l know she maybe in your space but be happy and enjoy my kids don't have no bond or spend time with there grandmother on there dad side but my mom
Mariah·
Мама сына-младенца
@juju5859, I do love her. I just have a thing about people spending the night at my house for more than a couple days at a time and I also don't like being told that I'm not parenting my son right or undermining the parenting style I'm trying to figure out (which she does often). She doesn't know how to drive which is why she stays for a week at a time. I like knowing how long people are going to be here. It helps me mentally prepare (I have severe anxiety). But since she has to get rides from her working children, I never know how long she'll be here. My son was two weeks old before she admitted that she didn't remember how to change a diaper. I do love her. Very much so. I just have to let my anxiety out somehow and my husband doesn't like to simply listen. He always dismisses my anxiety when I try to vent.
Juju·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
aww l feel you yeah l hate when ppl tell me oh this ain't right that ain't right hopefully she'll won't take it the wrong way
Brittany Sherman·
You Gotta Speak Up Tell Your Hubby You Appreciate Everything But You Just Want Bonding Time With Your Son For A While