My in laws wanted to do and help anyway they can its just the fact they volunteered and I know it is I just threw one in November for my sil and I told my cousin I wanted it like that not really any games instead for prizes we pulled names the only thing I wanted to change was to have everyone write down an old time remedy that work for them when they had babies

My in-laws were pissed my mom and aunt ended up taking completely over my shower. They were like "we wait till the last month" we had ours June 25th because the first weekend of the last month was July 4th. Now they are talking about having one just for Dallas that I won't be invited too even though they showed up to our baby shower and ate and played games. Baby shower planning is rough and I helped so much with mine because my mom and aunt did fantastic jobs with it. I just wish our families could get along. His family complains how tight on money they are all the time anyways