So apparently I'm the bad guy because I won't let my 60 year old mother who is a raging alcoholi(she…

So apparently I'm the bad guy because I won't let my 60 year old mother who is a raging alcoholi(she can polish of a gallon of Canadian Springs in about 3-4 days),who's health is horrible, and cant/won't take care of herself or her home, watch my 7 month old daughter. She refuses to see a doctor, one leg is swollen (sign of a blood clot) , she had a high tolerance but now it only takes two drinks, and she can only pee twice a day(her kidneys and liver must not be functioning well). Her house is covered in dog hair. Clumps of hair floating across the floor. My daughter is at the age of learning to crawl. I don't think she would purposely hurt her, but with the way her health and drinking goes, accidents happen. Well my daughter is staying with my MIL for two weeks in Texas while I'm at drill. My family is pissed off at me because I didn't ask them. I asked my mom to watch my dog for a week while I picked up my daughter and apparently my sister blabbed to my mom about me not being comfortable with her watching my daughter. So I got a shitty text back about this whole situation and not being able to watch Harley but I can watch your dog. Ugh fucking drama. Sorry I had to rant. I'm home alone with my daughter and I'm sure she won't have much to say about it.