So sorry to put a downer on things ladies but I have gotten some really bad news this morning regarding a close friend...I'm absolutely heartbroken for her and her husband and I have no where else I can discuss it 😔😢😭...so a very close friend of mine was pregnant at the same time as me (although she was weeks behind me) and we were excited as we were both due on a Thursday so every Thursday we'd congratulate each other for getting to another week and check in on how we were doing etc...anyway this morning she sent me a whatsapp explaining that she went into labour at 21 weeks yesterday and her twin boys unfortunately passed away! 😭😭😭😭 I'm desperately devastated for her and have no clue what to say or do, I'm heartbroken and sat crying for a while. I messaged her back but understandably she didn't reply and I think it's best to leave her and her husband to come to terms with all that's happening I just can't believe that this has happened to them again....💔💔
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What a difficult situation. I'm so sorry to hear this. All you can do is acknowledge her pain. Give her space and let her know your there for her when she is ready. No1 deserves such heart breaking news 😢. X
@natzie86, I've had my princess now and she was there to support me when I found out that she was very small for dates and that there could be an issue with her. I was induced at just over 37 weeks and she had a few issues at birth but is fine now and that's why she came to see me on Saturday...it's just such a shock 😔
@stacey804, yh exactly I've seen this first hand since they started trying for babies, they have one little blessing so far and I pray they receive many more xx
It's awful to see someone we love go through that devastating pain. All you can do is be there for her, support her and be a shoulder when she needs it. It will be incredibly tough for her when you have your baby but she will learn to be happy for you just like my friend did me
@natzie86, oh wow! I'm so sorry to hear that, it's absolutely awful...I only saw her on Sat and was asking her how it was all going and even gave her belly a rub, she was so happy and cheerful and enjoying her pregnancy...no one deserves that pain.
No one deserves that much heartache. It happens far to often but not many people like to speak about it. Unfortunately pregnancy isn't a walk in the park for everyone and some have to fight harder then others xx
This happened to my best mate she was 4months behind me when her lg was born sleeping at 28weeks.
@stacey804, thank you hun...I really hope so, I admire her so much she's so strong and has been through so much I was really hoping she'd be able to carry the twins to full term and deliver two healthy boys...her and her husband really deserve it. Instead they have to bury their babies, that's 4 now that they will have buried 😢😭 xx
So sad :( I'm sure she knows you are there for her when she's ready to talk about it though. Xx
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I just absolutely love some women on here! Some woman wants to write on another women's post telling her she shouldn't be having sex at all in the beginning of pregnancy. I didn't know she was her doctor. Then she wants to tell me that the first trimester is only 1-9 weeks pregnant. And she lost her baby at 4 weeks pregnant due to sex. Like sweetie that's your period starting!
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OMG!! Advise please!
So me and my husband have been keeping my pregnancy a secret from family. We have 3 more weeks to go until we reveal it! Well my older sister just called and told me she FINALLY got pregnant after 6+ moths of trying. She literally just took the test and called. Now she is calling my mother ON HER BIRTHDAY to tell her she's pregnant. She is 3 weeks 3 days along, I'm 10 weeks....do i keep the secret until the second trimester as planned or let her know I'm pregnant...and ahea...
@homely.mummy.no2, yh thanks hun...it's so true! no one deserves that kind of heartbreak and for it to happen 3 times now and have to bury 4 babies is completely life shattering. it's awful that because she was under the gestational period that they would usually intervene she had to watch her babies take their last breaths 😭😢...it doesn't bare thinking about and when I do my heart breaks for her x