my bf gave me a promise ring back when i was pregnant & hes been workin real hard to keep all them (drinking & hanging wit all his ex friends - bad influences, thugs & overall bad ppl who dont care about their babymommas or families) recently hes started to smoke cigerattes which i hate. i made him promise he wouldnt be a habit only when we go to the casino (yuu can smoke inside so sometimes i smoke too lol) today he was outside kicken it with his friend & i went out to ask him something & he had a ciggeratte in his hand. he got alarmed when i went out i think he knew. i came back inside & took the ring off
agh i am NOT gunna wear a ring that means shit if hes not keeping his promises. he came in asap & said it wasnt his cig that his friend passed it to him... idk if to believe that?
do people even pass cigerettes? i thought that was just blunts? what would yuu ladies think?
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I use to smoke before I got pregnant as well and I would pass cigarettes too. (Only w/ family or bf.) Specially if I didn't want a whole just a drag like @mybabyloves said sometimes its just to stop the craving doesn't necessarily mean you're back at it. I definitely want to stay away from them after baby but even then I know I'll never buy my own pack again but if there one and someone I'm close too or family memeber offers me a drag I'd probably take one. Just to stop the craving. @heeykayly
I think you're allowed to be mad like I wouldn't want to deal with that either. I totally would talk about it though see what's causing him to want to smoke maybe find something different he can relieve his stress and anxiety on. My boyfriend is super supportive and if he wasn't there for me when I've literally almost lit a cigarette id be back to smoking a pack a day again. It's a addiction
I have passed cigarettes before, if you dont want an entire cig, you just ask your friend for a drag or two. Been there done that many times. The craving remains and a drag or two is sometimes enough.
I mean my sisters pass cigerettes. The town they live in you can go to the bus stop and ask someone for a cigarette and if its the last one they have then they'll share it. I use to smoke and its hard to quite. But my husband made me choose after trying to stop for two years he said it was either the smoking or him. So after he said that I stopped when he shipped off to the military.
😢 wow makes so much sence. thanks for that, should i not be mad & just talk about it then? rather then just being mad &taking; the ring off? @latamalera
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