Another breastfeeding question. In my last post I mentioned my milk came in yesterday. My breasts are rock hard and hurt. I've tried massaging them in a warm shower like recommended but it didn't do much. I know they told me not to pump for a few weeks, but what if I pumped to dump and relieve some of the pressure and pain? I'm worried if I don't release more I'll get an infection. My baby isn't eating enough to relieve the pressure.
@taylorrleee1, you're so nice☺️!Thank you so much, I may definitely end up taking you up on that when the time comes.
of course! if you have any other questions at all don't hesitate to message me! I had a very rough time at first but I learned a lot because of it and now we're 3 months strong. 😊
@amiliz06, @babes101116 @mandy890 @mrsthig @taylorrleee1 thank you all so much. I'm still learning and I greatly appreciate all of your inputs! I'll be sure not to dump. Thank you guys so much!
Try hand expressing as well. Like the other mommas said, don't dump it!
pump but definitely don't dump! And only pump enough to relieve the pressure so you dont trick your body into thinking you need to make more milk than you really do!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
@mrsthig, thank you so so much! I'm so grateful!