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i need help deciding something. my daughter will be 3 months at the end of this month. i want to get her ears done while…

i need help deciding something.

my daughter will be 3 months at the end of this month. i want to get her ears done while shes little (not now but before 1 year) but her dad says he wants to wait. hes really not involved in her life. he only comes to see her once a month (if it works for him) and when hes here he only wants her for 1-2 hours max. i do my very best to co-parent with him and agree on stuff. but he won't agree with me on this. ive even asked about doing it for her 2nd birthday and he said "no we should wait" should i just do what I want? he gave up. his right before she was born so in the eyes of the law its my call.

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If you want them done young then do it. My cousin is 19 and she got her ears pierced when she was 7 or 8 and it terrified her to the point that she cries when she has to get a flu shot or blood drawn all because of that one experience with a needle.

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housfullofgrls

JessieМама двоих (4 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

I don't until they can make the decision for themselves, and take them to a real piercer, (Google piercing guns), but it's your decision.

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adaraa126

MckaylaМама двоих (4 года, 10 лет)

why not wait till shes older :) if she wants them done when shes able to make the choice then do it at that point!:)

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bean09

AmyМама дочки (3 года)

if you do it now, you can get her used to them being cleaned and taken care of and she won't remember it. if he gave up his rights, then it is your choice not his! I chose to wait, and my daughter came up and asked for them! so we had a mommy daughter day out of it. good luck deciding!:)

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