i need help deciding something.
my daughter will be 3 months at the end of this month. i want to get her ears done while shes little (not now but before 1 year) but her dad says he wants to wait. hes really not involved in her life. he only comes to see her once a month (if it works for him) and when hes here he only wants her for 1-2 hours max. i do my very best to co-parent with him and agree on stuff. but he won't agree with me on this. ive even asked about doing it for her 2nd birthday and he said "no we should wait" should i just do what I want? he gave up. his right before she was born so in the eyes of the law its my call.