I don't know many people and most of my family lives in Michigan. The biological father disowned this baby and wants nothing tondo with her but my boyfriend has stepped up in thee best way possible I'd just feel odd asking his family about it. :/

I've heard of having a "diaper sprinkle" for following babies. For my second son my MIL had a "sip and see" a few weeks after he was born.

I don't know very many people but I do want a baby shower