- My SO gets mat at me for talking to a guy friend I known him since we were in middle school; we…
- My SO gets mat at me for talking to a guy friend I known him since we were in middle school; we stop talking for a while since he moved states and recently I found him on Facebook and started talking to him catching up with life and stuff .... he gets mad saying Ima leave him for the guy when I don't like him like that his just a fucken friend , and I ask him if he wants me to stop talking to him and I will, he just tells me you can talk to whoever you want but yet his getting mad about my friend ... he doesn't flirt with me we just talk like to normal people and he knows I am engaged and w. a baby too and all I do is talk to him about my son to him . ... I already talk to my SO and told him if I see any sigh of him trying to flirt w. Me or if he sees anything (we share a facebook) that I will stop talking to him for good ....ugghhh.... I just wanna have friends.....
Elle·
Мама сына-младенца
Tell your SO that he has permission to look at every conversation whenever he wants. I have some guy friends and as long as I'm open with my SO about every thing he's pretty cool about it. I hope he starts to trust you a little more! It most likely just had to do with his insecurities and not you, you know?
C.·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (36 нед.)
He sounds a bit more insecure than a man going into a marriage should be hun but you have to choose which relationship is more important. Your friendship or your love relationship. Our SOs will dislike things we do a lot in our lives and no matter how we feel about it, we have to respect their feelings because you bet your butt we would expect the same. As far as making friends, I agree it is very important for us mommies to have friends. have you joined any mommy groups in your local area?
Maria·
Мама сына-младенца
-yes i tell him he has permission to look at the messages all the time and he does go through them and plus he also gets them on his phone so it's not like I'm hiding it from him.... thanks for the help @aboutellesbabe
Maria·
Мама сына-младенца
- yes he tells me his insecure about himself and I tell him not to be cause his stuck w. me whether he likes it or not lol... I love him to death he just gets me irritated sometimes... and no I haven't look into any mommy groups I don't even know if there's any in Phoenix ! ...but thanks for the advice Ima look into the group thing :)... @showersoverflowers