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Lucia Cordero
it sucks that whenever I make any comment about having a baby shower, you can hear my mom's tone change. I wish I could rely on her at least to hear me out. but she still thinks it's best to not have one. I can't talk to my bf about it either bc it's just a girl thing to him. but at the same time I'm not working and he hasn't mentioned when are we going to start buying baby stuff. he leaves everything up to me. I feel like I'm in this alone right now bc I don't like asking for help I'm very independent and like getting things done on my own. I don't know what the best thing to do at this point is.
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lucyyxoxo_

yea I agree food is the most expensive. I need to think about it. I have about a week or 2 left to chose @amorrione

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lucyyxoxo_

yea I agree food is the most expensive. I need to think about it. I have about a week or 2 left to chose @amorrione

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amorrione

It's totally possible to do it easy. If you do it in the afternoon you can just do a snack and sodas buffet and not worry about having to provide a meal for everyone which can get pricey.

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lucyyxoxo_

yea that's pretty much the only reason I want to do it lol I even brought up waiting til after she was born and she threw a bigger fit lol I have about a week to decide so I have enough time to send out invites and it not be too close to my due date. only God knows what's best @stormygirl

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stormygirl

Me too!! Even more so cus you're having a girl this time around. We don't have any girls in our family and just the thought of a lil Babygirl shower is exciting. Hope you figure everything out 👍🏼👍🏼

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lucyyxoxo_

@stormygirl, yea of course I know it's possible. I love party planning I've done a few. she just feels bc I'll be spending my own money it's best to save it for the baby. I just didn't think I needed to rely on others you know. after all it is my 2nd kid.

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stormygirl

You can always throw a baby shower on a budget. My mom threw me my baby shower and spent $$ on ridiculous things like booze which we still have left over and taco guy and deco. I kept telling her we didn't need all that. You can spend your $$ wisely. Throw a lil bbq babyshower like one of the mommas suggested. Maybe have some family members make some side dishes and you can look up diy decorations on Pinterest. I know there's a lot of cute Babygirl ideas on there.

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kenitra

Oh I see. I thought it was your first!

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lucyyxoxo_

@royalty, yea she doesn't agree with me and I don't with her. no one else has to throw a shower for me they shouldn't be obligated to spend their money you know. but I'm having a little girl a different experience I want to celebrate. my bf loves his daughter but come enough with the belly rubs we need to start bc I don't want to leave things til the last minute lol

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royalty

@lucyyxoxo_, I understand that. I went through something similar with my mom and yes they do lol I had to tell my fiancé to cough over the money. Eventually because if it were up to him he'd still be waiting lol

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lucyyxoxo_

@amorrione, my mom is able to. she just prefers spending her money wisely and I'm not mad at her for that. I just wish she would be ok with my choice that's all. I want something more intimate than with my son. it was too many people too much chaos that I didn't enjoy it. and bc she doesn't hear me out I feel like she thinks I'm planning on having another day just like that and I don't.

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lucyyxoxo_

@royalty, It's not about how big or small I chose to have one. it's the fact that my choice to have one period is being turned down by her all the time you know? my bf sucks period when it comes to organizing anything lol and I hate just saying cough over the money and I'll do it on my own.

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lucyyxoxo_

@mommarayaa916, that's what I'm sad about too. just hear me out that's all. I know I don't need a baby shower and that it is best to just use that money to buy things. but I had so much fun at my sons baby shower that I want to have that with my daughter. I don't need it so people can support this baby

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lucyyxoxo_

@kenitra she think someone other than myself should host it. I don't agree bc it is my 2nd kid. no one has to do that for me. she said she didn't want to go through the hassle. she rather buy my daughter things she needs and I'm ok with that.

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amorrione

My mom wasn't in a position to do one so my mother-in-law has organized it

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royalty

Have a bbq? That's what I'm doing after my aunt backed out of my baby shower I decided to throw a bbq for everyone to come and join. Also my fiancé waited until last minute to start buying stuff. Have you talked to him about it ? He's probably doing the same (:

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