@go paschal, I'm definitely not doing over nights yet! & @arlogreyson & @maya.rose I told him tomorrow I'll let him keep him by himself for 3 hours, but I'm gonna have is grandma & mom supervise for me & let me know how things go.. I feel a lot better that they're going to be there. If he has a hard time I'll stay next time.. I feel like I need to give him a chance

I would have some concerns also, if you're not comfortable with dropping him off and picking him later on, than I would talk to him about it, maybe when he's a few months older. if he's wanting to be in his life and you guys are on good terms I don't see why he would see a problem. I mean he is 3 weeks old and on top of that, you don't really know him or his family.

I wouldn't leave my newborn overnight. That would be hard for me to do. I didn't leave my newborn until I absolutely had to at 6 weeks for daycare.

^ He is the dad but that doesn't mean leave your newborn with him right away. It's up to you, but if you're not sure you could always go with the baby to make sure he knows what he's doing. Then when you're comfortable let the baby go alone.

yeah I know! I agreed to it I'm just nervous about leaving him there I guess. I don't really know my baby's dad all that well, we were never in a relationship & hardly knew each other when I got pregnant. I just worry if I should trust him or not. @babyrossmommy

He is the dad, he has same rights as you. He should be able to take care of his child to.