kayla Hernandez
mommyof5kayla
kayla Hernandez·Мама четверых детей, беременна

Question mommas when did you start working after your babies were born I want to go back to work but I'm not sure yet I haven't worked in 2 years now

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lucyyxoxo_
Lucia Cordero·Мама сына (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)

I didn't but it was at my mom's house so I had to get up and do stuff lol and her place is on the 2nd floor. I'm thinking now that why 2 days later my contractions began haha

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mommyof5kayla
kayla Hernandez·Мама четверых детей, беременна

Lol awweee yeah I was hosting my own babyshower so it was crazy @lucyyxoxo_

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lucyyxoxo_
Lucia Cordero·Мама сына (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)

the rest were played without me lol

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mommyof5kayla
kayla Hernandez·Мама четверых детей, беременна

Lol I had 7 games ready I only remembered 4 of then Lmfao @lucyyxoxo_

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lucyyxoxo_
Lucia Cordero·Мама сына (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)

that's great! I remember for mine I left like 3 plates of food to get cold. I swear I only played like 2 games bc I was up and down. it was chaos with too many guests lol

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mommyof5kayla
kayla Hernandez·Мама четверых детей, беременна

Girl that thing was super crazy I didn't get to sit down till the end of the shower but everyone enjoyed it and it turned out great @lucyyxoxo_

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lucyyxoxo_
Lucia Cordero·Мама сына (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)

I understand your concern. I found my last job there and many others I've applied to have been legit they just never worked out for me. on another note, how did your baby shower end up I remember you were a bit frustrated the day before?

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mommyof5kayla
kayla Hernandez·Мама четверых детей, беременна

I really don't trust Craigslist alot of fucked up things have been gapping on this damn website people post fake ads on there my husband is very protective so he will be on everything to see if it's real and all that and I think imma go looking in September for a job so I can spend a fee weeks with baby @lucyyxoxo_

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lucyyxoxo_
Lucia Cordero·Мама сына (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)

Craigslist has a lot of openings. I wish my bf had a set schedule. but it's never the same. once my son goes back to school and my daughter is born I hope we can figure something out. after 7 years of being at the same job to now not working, I feel like I need to be out the house to switch up my routine.. and the extra money would be great too. enjoy your newborn for as long as you can (:

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mommyof5kayla
kayla Hernandez·Мама четверых детей, беременна

Okay yeah ill probably start looking for work when the kids go back to school so that I will have time to go out and look without any problems it's just so hard now in days to work and be a mom but someone has to do it and help out with the bills lol thank you ladies this is alot of help time to get back in the game @dang_dridri @lucyyxoxo_

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dang_dridri
Adrianna·В ожидании первенца

Oooohhh ok gotcha. Yeah things have definitely changed a lot over the years. I would ask your doctor & explain the type of work you'll be doing and they'll clear you when they feel you're ready. In your case personally I would take the 6-8 weeks (or maybe even just 4 if it's urgent) to enjoy yourself & baby, then maybe ease back into working like start of part time.

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mommyof5kayla
kayla Hernandez·Мама четверых детей, беременна

Okay imma look around and see what's best for me and my family my husband has a set schedule so imma try to find something to work around that and around my kids school hours so I can still be able to pick them up from school @lucyyxoxo_

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lucyyxoxo_
Lucia Cordero·Мама сына (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)

start with a part time job. so you can ease your way back in. or maybe a cash paying job so taxes don't take anything from you?

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mommyof5kayla
kayla Hernandez·Мама четверых детей, беременна

well I haven't worked in so many years and I haven't had a newborn in 5 years lol so my older kids will be in school at the end of august and I want to enjoy being a new mom but I also want to help with all our bills and stuff @dang_dridri

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dang_dridri
Adrianna·В ожидании первенца

Maternity leave now is USUALLY about 6-8 weeks. Some women I work with came back a week later & others took the whole time. I plan on taking 12 weeks. But I also work a desk job.

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mommyof5kayla
kayla Hernandez·Мама четверых детей, беременна

Yes I haven't worked in 2 years and I really need to work because our money is running really low with just my husband working @lucyyxoxo_

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lucyyxoxo_
Lucia Cordero·Мама сына (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)

I think it was like 5 months later. i haven't worked my whole pregnancy this time around so it might be more difficult for me to be away from them if I ever do lol

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