I need someone to talk to... I was 18 and he was 20 when we found out I was pregnant and we decided…
I need someone to talk to...
I was 18 and he was 20 when we found out I was pregnant and we decided to keep, I DEFINITELY don't regret that at all.. but when we got up the courage to tell our families, my mom pressured us to get married for the sake of my family's "reputation". She said that she wouldn't support us financially if we didn't, so we did.
I didn't mind it at the time... I love him, I think.. But I'm really starting to resent the fact that I will never have that moment of surprise when someone catches me off guard while they're down on one knee asking me to marry them for no reason other than that they love me.
It's really taking a toll on our relationship and I'm not sure what to do about that...
Michelle·
Мама дочки (2 года)
Can always just sit down and have this talk with him and actually plan a wedding just cause y'all are married already don't mean you still can't have a wedding tell him how you feel it may help and maybe he will wanna pop the question still in the near future
R🐘·
Мама сына-младенца
We did have a wedding and it was beautiful, it was just kinda tense and it didn't feel the same. You know @michelleaaliyah? I just don't think that him asking again would fix anything at this point.
Michelle·
Мама дочки (2 года)
Well it sounds like your missing the emotional part of it maybe it's just something you two need to talk about maybe do something with just y'all two together
R🐘·
Мама сына-младенца
I don't know, I'll try and talk to him... I'm honestly feeling like I'm losing feelings for him @michelleaaliyah
Michelle·
Мама дочки (2 года)
Well that's never a good thing but that can happen when being forced into something and not just letting it play out. Maybe y'all are just lackin some alone time and need that like out on dates you know stuff couples do before they get married
emily·
Мама сына-младенца
I can definitely see why you feel the way you do, I think almost every girl imagines what it'll be like to get proposed to, and you never got the chance. I agree with @michelleaaliyah that maybe you guys should have some alone time to talk about doing something with the two of you. I would feel the same way if I were in your situation. When you say the wedding was "tense" what exactly do you mean by that?
Izzy Iwanski·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (29 нед.)
Go on a ţrip together! Get away together! Or separate yourselves for a week or two & see how much you miss each other.
Kirsten·
Мама сына (1 год)
Honestly i would literally say "ik we r already married, and i have a ring already, but i would love it if u really proposed to me" im sure he will understand and think its cute
R🐘·
Мама сына-младенца
We just got back from going to Hawaii together. It was wonderful, but all of our problems were waiting for us when we got back @michelleaaliyah @emkasting @elizabethslewy @kysonsmama and it was tense because my family was being all crazy and dramatic @emkasting I've thought about that, but then I would be expecting it.. And we're already married, so it wouldn't be real @kysonsmama