I'm so confused right now. Someone I have been bestfriends with for years have just told me they have great deep feelings for me, but I have feelings for him and someone else I don't know what to do? I'm just confused and stressing out badly. On top of that my little munchkin is kicking up a storm in there. Ready to just cry myself to sleep I feel so bad, I feel like shit I just want to throw my brains up.
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Aw see that's good :) Well good luck to you! You deserve to be happy :)
@angelao777, Yeah thank you I appreciate it if really you. I know that they both love me and care for me that is why he say he will wait as long as it takes
If it was meant to be with either one it will be. If your friend loves you then he will wait for when you're ready. I know it hurts hurting someone but it's better to be honest then to lead him on. If it works with the other guy then that's great and hopefully your friend can be happy for you and if it doesn't than you know your friend will be there for you. Just think of the situation in reverse, if you love someone then you want them to be happy regardless of who it's with. And I'm sure you've been happy for your friend when he's been in a relationship and was happy. Just think of if you loved him the same way, would you want him to be with you if he loved someone else? You would want him to be happy and know that if it was meant to be things wouldn't work with her and he'd have you to lean on. I hope you're doing better! Cheer up you have two great men in your life. Everyone gets hurt but at the end of the day your friend will want you in his life however he can have you if he truly loves you...friend or more.
@angelao777, Yeah it makes sense but he does genuinely want to be with me. He's always been there for me and it's just like I told him that I want the other guy I'm and he understands but I feel like shit. Now I'm just crying and thinking I made a mistake.
You should ask him if feels this way because he wants to be the one to make you happy or because he feels bad that you aren't happy in your relationships. Because if it's the latter he might just feel like he'd be fixing something for you (as a friend) which may seem right outside the situation. But if he genuinely loves you and wants to be the only person to make you happy then that's different. Does that make sense?
@angelao777, I've tried that in the beginning the first time he told me and now it's like he's watch me go through relationship after relationship, heart break after heart break, and it's just like he wants me happy for once
Just be honest and say you care about him but don't want to lose what the two of you built as far as being friends because at the end of the day relationships can come and go but friendships worth having can last forever. Crossing the line into something more can destroy something so good that you can never replace. If he cares about you then he will see that.
@angelao777, Yeah I think it's that but I don't know what to tell him.
Because it's easier to love someone your not so close with. When it's your friend the feelings are there but it's easier to see yourself with them as a friend.
@angelao777, I'm trying not to but it's like it's too late I care about them both but I'm in love with one of them.
My ex best guy friend told me he loved me after years of being friends. At that point I thought of him like a brother and we kinda parted ways. After a few years I reached out to try to salvage our friendship and he told me he wishes we would've ended up together, which made me feel bad all over. It's hard maintaining a friendship when feelings get in the mix. Sometimes at the end of the day it's best not to risk your friendship.
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@angelao777, Thank you and I know I do