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Akira
Akira
Мама двоих (4 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего

Rant... Ok so I'm 23 years old I had my first baby at 16 second at 18 and here I am having my…

Rant...

Ok so I'm 23 years old I had my first baby at 16 second at 18 and here I am having my boyfriends first at 23 ... He has expressed that he wants one more child ... Now of course I wanted squish to be the last but I mean damn isn't it fair to give him another if he wants especially if we get married? Relationship is about compromise right?! He accepts my two as his own but he wants two of his own I think that's fair ... Especially when he is the provider ... My Godmom just asked me and she isn't the only one to Ask if I'm getting my tubes tied and I know I have stated why I'm not several times NOW I'm ready to go off especially being that I lean on no one to take care of my kids 😐

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10yearslater0205

Shannon Catullo

Мама двоих (11 лет, 13 лет), ждёт третьего

I think so ... If y'all get married down the road and he wants one more with you

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mommyxtwice

Mary Carpenter

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I'm so sorry people are pushing and asking you about such a personal question. You're 23 for crying out loud! Most women wouldn't even consider that as an option so young. Im surprised people so close to you are being pushy on this. Shoot, I would just be up front, tell them it's a personal matter for you alone to decide and you don't want to be asked about it again.

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squish_mommy0727

Akira

Мама двоих (4 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего

Right I see no harm .. If I was dependent upon these people then I get it but I work he work we are in our own home like what ?! @10yearslater0205

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10yearslater0205

Shannon Catullo

Мама двоих (11 лет, 13 лет), ждёт третьего

It's no ones business what u do and how old are u now ?? I'm not even sure an Ob will do that ... Plus not that it's the same but look at me I know it's different I'm 39 having my third in my heart I knew I was never done and we kinda got forced at being done but we never did anything drastic and look 12 years later here we go again .. It was planned same baby daddy .. My hubby of 16 almost 17 years .. People ask me all the time oh different dad? Nope same we took a break and I'm glad in going at this again this is by far the best pregnancy I ever had

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cait.mommyto3

Caitlyn LeAnn

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Everyone is constantly asking me if I am getting my tubes tied. Ill be 21 in 3 months and on my 3rd child. Had my first at 18, second at 19 and now will have my third right before I turn 21. It's annoying because like you said, my fiance and I are the only ones who physically and financially take care of them. I'm too young to even consider it but I do plan on getting some kind of long term bc. Lol. I think you should do what you want. I would personally go through with his wishes. ☺

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squish_mommy0727

Akira

Мама двоих (4 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего

And see my first two don't have the same father neither was planned I was young! But I made the decision to take on the responsibility now I'm an adult squish was planned and I'm still handling my responsibility I just don't get it @10yearslater0205

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squish_mommy0727

Akira

Мама двоих (4 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего

And that's the thing I most likely will do it ...I told him I'll give you a year and a ring a year to experience parenting and a ring on my finger then we can talk about one more after that I'm done @cait.mommyto3

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cait.mommyto3

Caitlyn LeAnn

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

It's all about compromising. ☺

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squish_mommy0727

Akira

Мама двоих (4 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего

Exactly at the end of the day @cait.mommyto3

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diana_martinez

Diana

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@squish_mommy0726, I'm 23 and expecting my fourth baby I had my first at 15 . My first two are from a prior Marriage. I'm getting my tubes tied right away @10yearslater0205 my Ob does do that as long as your over age and are sure you want it. I'm tying tube because I can't keep having babies and I think 4 is more than I can handle I wanna finish school and I wanna enjoy my kids as well. I also don't want a 3rd father for my kids if anything ever went wrong in the future I think it's the best decision I have made for my future . If I regret it oh well but I don't think so

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