I'm a first time mom and I breastfeed..so it's pretty stressful n my bf had always been a hard sleeper n now these the baby is here he still hasn't got the hang of waking up when the baby cries so it's always me that had to be up all night with her .it's tiring and I don't think he gets that ..I'm tired af she's only two weeks and she won't take a bottle so dad can't feed her n she's with me all day n night no matter what..n I just want a little rest
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Unfortunately I don't think men ever wake up when babies cry. Even though he can't feed him, let him know that you need help. He won't know unless you tell him. I was the same for the first 2 weeks when I was breastfeeding. Unfortunately it didn't work for me so he's now on formula.
hang in there mama, it'll still get easier. it's best not to offer baby a bottle until at least 4 weeks, to avoid nipple confusion. most men sleep right through a baby's cry. But maybe he can try to let you get a nap in after you've nursed. he can take baby after, just wake him up! lol
My boyfriend was the same way so to make thing fair I fed the baby (I also breastfeed) and then hand him over to my boyfriend to put back to sleep while I go to bed...and I mean I WAKE him up! It's not fair so I make it fair
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So over this feeling!
Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The...
omg... I'm so depressed my child cries more than she doesnt..The only time she's not crying is when she's alsleep.. but she only sleeps 30 minutes each time. she won't sit in her carseat, her crib, pack n play , her swing, bouncer nothing!!! I have to hold ger 24/7 even when she's sleeping or else she will wake up. I'm tired I don't get any sleep nothing soothes her I don't even remember the last time I had enough time to bathe :'( I love her so much but this is so challenging
Ok so there's this girl that won't leave my man alone... She's a crazy ex and I want to know what I should do.... It's like she does thing purposely to taunt me and I can't beat her ass bcuz I'm pregnant... No matter what he does our says to her she won't stop.... This is her...I swear y'all it's taking everything in me not to get her beat tf up!!?
@sharonpaige13, it's hard to wake him up he does this thing like I think he up but he talking n his sleep but I try to wake him sometimes..@rosalinasmami, we try the bottle BBC I want to goto work n still want her breastfed tho n yeah he started out trying to or her to Sherri after I feed but IDK why happened now...@amiliz06, I've told him.doesn't seem like anything had changed much N we're trying not to use formula but I've thought about it bc that way it'll be kinda equal at night he can fees her too but I don't wanna give her formula ..he just needs to help more n be more supportive,shoot I'm tired and still do everything