So my boyfriends cousin is having a baby too, it was more of a non planned pregnancy like she had…

Wow she don't even deserve to be pregnant that's fucked up like for real

when my twin and I turned 21, my twin had just had her son the month before. we went out to olive garden with him and had a nice dinner. I think once have a baby all party days should stop. you shouldn't stop from going out once in a while (I just went out with some coworkers but my baby is 4 months old and we just went to a restaurant to eat) she sounds like she shouldn't be a mother

I mean like you can still have a life. But your life isnt as important anymore since your baby is coming. Your the babies number 1 provider your his mom. Especially since the dad isn't in the picture. But seriously. A 3 month old baby should stop you. @van21

She's gonna be a bad mom an she can hurt the baby by doing that she needs smacked smh @paightonsmommy

I hope she turns around once he is here and she sees how important a baby is and partying isnt. But i cant do anything about it. Its her baby and her life. @van21 @babizehm16

Yep@paightonsmommy

First of all, the mature one here is you (obviously) you're younger than her. She is just stupid. Poor child, you should really call social services or something because this kid is just dumb enough to Ruin the life of an innocent baby. @paightonsmommy

Lets just hope she changes her mind. 😐

Unfortunately too many moms think/act like her

Hmm. I'm kinda weary on this subject. I turn 21 in october and my daughter will be 3 months old then. I have two kids already, a 1 and 2 year old. I've never left their sight but a minium of 3 times to the store and they were left with their dad. I got out of the party stage before I even had either of them and have been fortunate enough to be a SAHM. My kids have never been left with anyone but their dad because of my trust issues. Buuuuuut, I never have "me time" and I mean NEVER. I'm stuck in a house all day everyday with my boys. I am barely able to shower everyday because my fiance works 13 hour days and by time my kids go to bed I end up going with them. I plan on enjoying my birthday without my kids, not getting wasted but going out and having fun. I don't think that makes me a bad mom. I know my kids will be in good hands and be fine for the couple hours I'm gone, especially since they'll be asleep.

Wow..... @yumiyukai social services? Really? She didn't say she's giving the baby alcohol or leaving it alone. 😂😂 some of you are taking this a little too insane. If she finds someone RESPONSIBLE to watch her baby why should it matter. Moms get breaks too. I used to take a friend's kiddos because she was a single mom and wanted a night out. Should she get completely obliterated? Maybe not. My husband did? And I kept our kiddos but went out and helped him get so. Are you going to take my kids from me? He also watched them while I went out. And shortly after this baby we're all going out on a party bus again. You all need to check your judgments. Having a baby doesn't mean you red to hide in a hole forever. Partying every weekend or all night, not always okay. Celebrating a bday especially the 21st, who cares. If the child is with someone capable and responsible why shouldn't she?!

@dcb012 , I believe she said she's currently pregnant and 28 weeks ... I think she is giving the baby alcohol. 😂 if the baby was born , yeah let her hire a baby sitter and celebrate her birthday. That isn't a problem. But SHES PREGNANT!!!! Lmao

She said "her baby will be 3 months old"

@yumiyukai,

@yumiyukai,

"She will be 28 weeks" lol I think somethings up

@dcb012,

@yumiyukai, idk if you're reading the whole post lol. It said she's 28 weeks and her 21st is this year.... And then mentioned her plans.... Maybe that's the whole problem in everyone's comments is the miscommunication. To me it says she's 28 weeks pregnant NOW but will have had the baby and the baby be almost 3 months old when she turns 21 and goes out.....

Yes! Her baby will already be born hes due sep 23 and her bday isnt until December. He will be not even 3 months old. Your right @dcb012

Yeah.... I don't see the problem in it then.... If she's nursing pump before, and make sure she's sober before nursing again... As long as the baby is safe I don't get why it's a big deal.

Idk if she is nursing. I think its just me. But i would want to spend time with my newborn. But thats why i said its not a crime to party.