I went through the same thing with my son's father. He had a baby 3 months before mine. Came to my son's birth. We went to court to establish child support and he's hardly been around him in 2 yrs. I would say do what's best for you. But dont be petty and keep him away. I keep the door open.

I'm really trying I already know he won't provide for Kamden @amyadink1

I wish he'd just forget about us he already has another baby on the way and I don't want my son around him but I can't be that petty! @futuremrs.holbert

I completely understand @makdenb I was still with my sons dad when my son was born but we broke up after my son was 2 months old & pretty much ever since then he just goes ghost until a holiday rolls around and tries to get my son to try & show him off to people. I wasn't having it! my boyfriend has been my sons father for over a year now so we don't even worry about my bds bs anymore

Ya but for all he knows you could've gone early! Lots of people give birth before their due date

You can be the bigger person about it you can allow him to be in the baby's life if he choose to be but you don't have to put up with him being in and out of y'all lives that's not healthy for you or the baby .. Good luck and stay strong mama put your foot down !!

He knows I'm due that's why he keeps calling @shellbell0391

Tell him if he was around he'd know where you were at in your pregnancy

Like where was he the whole time.. Vein a father isn't just about posting pictures of your baby. @futuremrs.holbert

smh I can't stand dudes like that.

I don't even know what to do 😐 @amyadink1

Some nerve he has😠