Asked Alex 3 times to help me give Emery a bath so I feed her then put her to sleep. Alex ignores me…

Asked Alex 3 times to help me give Emery a bath so I feed her then put her to sleep. Alex ignores me all 3 times and holds Emery then brings her in our room which is where Emery's crib is and lays her down. She's asleep, in a filthy onesie and probably dirty diaper. Grrr... So frustrated..