Okay so my SO has decided on a girls name and is very set on this name. I however am not and very dislike the name. I…
Okay so my SO has decided on a girls name and is very set on this name. I however am not and very dislike the name. I really wish I liked it. The first reason I don't like it is I personally don't find it cute and wanted to stick with names starting with K my first kiddos is Kammy. Second this was the name my BIL's twin was supposed to be named she passed in utero so I feel it has a bad mark on the name !? The name is Talya Michelle Lynn Neeley. I love our boy name and so does my husband how do I go about talking to him about it I wouldn't be opposed to Talya as the middle name I just don't want it as the first name! I don't want to hurt his feelings and promised him he could name the girl this time around since I got to chose the first child's name! Really hoping for a boy!! so I don't have to even have a conversation about it with him!😞 what do I do!
asianae simmons·
Мама дочки-младенца
explain the reason why you don't want it like that and that can he come up with another suggestion due to the whole passing of the twin.
jm664·
Мама двоих (2 года, 9 лет)
@asianae16, I'm just nervous it's going to turn into a fight because I promised him😞 and don't want to hurt his feelings for not liking his name!
Cassandra·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (18 нед.)
The way I see it, it's your kid your choice. If it was me I'd consider it but if I didn't absolutely love it I wouldn't use it...
Rachel·
Мама сына (1 год)
Honestly I would wait for the gender ultrasound. Its a 50/50 chance of the baby being a boy. If it turns out to be a girl, then you can talk about it
jm664·
Мама двоих (2 года, 9 лет)
@cassandrareyna14, it's our child though together supposed to be a mutual agreement @rachel8792 I kinda thought about it but we are doing a gender reveal and we aren't finding out tell then! and we were going to tell the name on that same day! so I really can't wait I just need to put my big girl panties on and just talk to him....
Cassandra·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (18 нед.)
Then I'd settle with a middle name at least...the whole name is a little much to ask for, at least the middle name will give you both what you want
jm664·
Мама двоих (2 года, 9 лет)
@cassandrareyna14, that's what I thought too I hope he'll agree and we can both decide on a good first name!!
Jessica·
I agree that it should be mutual but I also think you have a very good reason for not liking the name. he should understand that in my eyes and compromise with you. I'm sure you came up with a few names he disliked when you named your first girl. and him not being able to pick Talya doesn't mean he can't pick the name for the baby @julianeeley21