so.the day started off good and there was no fighting at all . then my fiance decided to tell his father we wee going to his house for dinner without telling me after I had already taken stuff out to cook and all that so I told him to tell him no we were not going g over there he knlws i dont want the kids at his dads house and he got mad.and that caused a fight so he took the kids and went to his moms house to get his hair cut (he also has never had both kids by himself because he cant hamdel them) my first time awith out either kids in 2 years and i cant stop freaking out because who knkws what hes doing or what there doing.. I told him to be back by 5 because dinner would be ready by then.. its 6:10 now and he's still not home he left at 4:00... his mother lives 10 min down the road.. I'm beyond.pissed I've been trying to get our daughter to eat on a schedule and he knows that and now when he gets home and I bitch at him I'm.gonna be the bad guy again like always! I'm.so angry ugh needed to vent..