Omg!!! Nooo I'm so sorry they said that and agreed ! Ew how can they do that especially your grandma? Honey you keep your head high and children are a blessing the Lord Himself, wish you health, and a beautiful pregnancy 💜💜💜

F*** them ... Its your body .. If you want the baby you should keep it .. It would be a blessing ..

he sounds like he needs to grow up! he needs to stand up for you and your child! NO ONE CAN FORCE YOU INTO AN ABORTION, if he didn't want a kid he should have used protection, YOUR BODY, YOUR CHOICE!!!

Yes @mc.squared DNA is set at the moment of conception!

Absolutely @rawwrdinoox :)

Thank you ladies! @mc.squared I would love to talk to you more over message if I could!

Right? @shellbell0391 That's what I was thinking. Nothing really causes it all the time. I was 24 with no family history. Anything can happen to anyone at any time for any reason!

Down's syndrome is a chromosomal abnormality that happens when the sperm meets the egg. My friend had multiple rhogam shots during her pregnancy when she was spotting and she has a healthy baby girl. My mom also had the rhogam shot when she was pregnant with me and I'm damn near perfect ~ ;)

Rhogam shot doesn't cause downs.

i feel the only way I would abort is if the baby can not live on it's own meaning life support and or constantly in the hospital where I can't learn to provide and help them. DS is just a baby who needs more care DS actresses and actors can obviously act and they have modeled they aren't all the "special" they aren't a burden. but I won't abort unless my doctor suggested it, but I'm wrong for feeling offended?

And I'm just here to say that a baby with DS isn't terrible. It's an amazing gift. My daughter has Down Syndrome so it's set not the worst thing that can happen. She's a rockstar and I wouldn't have her any other way! That being said, I'd tell that lady to eat shit if she feels a baby should be aborted based on a DS diagnosis. There's a special place in hell for people like that!! Sorry your going thru that :/

I got the shot which is what I was told was the best thing by everyone else

@rawwrdinoox, I definitely understand how you feel my bf grandma also wanted me to abort our baby but I told him that I would never do that and was keeping our child no matter what he stepped up and is there for me now..even his mom was very upset but your situation sounds stressful keep the baby in the end if there not gonna be supportive they do not have to see your child stay strong with your decision and I believe you can do it I was prepared for my bf to leave me and baby during that period since he just turned 20 when we found out about our child I pray everything turns out well for you and no matter how tough things get I promise you won't regret it I'm 37 weeks pregnant now and I'm really excited to meet my daughter I even fought through hyperemesis and his grandma put me down a lot it's gotten better though I'm wishing you the best! The RH+ thing is important for you and baby too.

Wow

Thank you ladies at least I know I did everything I can, and everything right. I wasn't rude I did swear and I was RESPECTFUL as angry as we can get I kept calm AND nice. even when they don't deserve it. you ladies provide such a great community for each other I love you all ladies!