So I need some advice when do you need to start being careful about what you watch and say in front of a baby

In case you needed to know!
You can be racist towards the race of your friends.
You can be racist towards your own race.
You can be racist towards the race of your family.
You can be racist towards the race of your spouse.
You can be racist towards the race of your kids.
Your racism doesn't just stop being racism because 'X' is said race.
Racism is Racism.
Thanks for coming to this very well needed TedTalk.
I really don't understand the judgment between being a working mom or a stay at home mom. If you need to work, work. If not, don't. No need to degrade other women for doing the opposite of you. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️

Are mom friends a must when you are a new mom? What about a seasoned mom? The short answer is yes, you do need mom friends.
My baby is a month old and I've started watching my language and stuff now, like @mommygreene said, it's best to establish the habit early on