@mamaash im just nervous to hang around i feel its only a matter of time till he cheats physically n i dont want to be here for that

@mamaash good idea. n very true.

I think you should give it some time. maybe separate and then just see what he does when he's not around. he might not have had sex or anything with these girls but the flirting and texting back and forth behind your back is cheating bc you didn't know about it he kept it from you bc he knew it was something he shouldn't be doing.

@latamalera thanks girlie🙌

Just know your worth. Great mothers and wives are valuable. He'll see his fuck ups when it's too late.

Honestly I personally would. It shows he doesn't respect you or your marriage. Yeah you can talk to him about it and see if he changes but personally that's not a chance I'm willing to take. It's not about pride it's about self respect and you need to know that you don't deserve this. Marriage is something serious and sacred but so is your life. Do you really want to be with someone who's going to make you feel like your not enough?

@forever223 thank u i agree...but there is alot more issues i think this is the cherry on top , so too speak. some things are work able if they change but this is the second girl i found out about last time i gave him a chance ... relationships take two to work .

Marriage is a promise, and sometimes you have to choose to keep your pride, or keep the promise you made. I take marriage vows very seriously.. My husband has done some shady stuff to me, but it would take ALOT to make me leave him. Talk to your husband about your concerns, and work through this together. Just my opinion.

I agree. My boyfriend cheated and lied about it. clearly i got the truth. She actually told me sent me texts and everything. i confronted. we are still together but it still hurts . i think about it all the time but i do love him. Hes proven to be loyal since then that was 7 months ago. still have some trust issues. We have a son.

@deafmama16 he is a recovering addict and he told me that he was talking to her for his friend...to help get him pills...i read he called her beautiful...i talked to her she told me he said we are divorcing. makes me think he is bullshitting...girl stoped talking to him when she found out the truth. i dont want to feel guilty for divorcing him....but i dont want to wait till he meets another girl n really goes all the way

Talk to him first and let him know how you feel. He could not be cheating on you but he should still respect you. We women go overboard when it comes to our man talking to another female and thoughts start flying all over the place. Communications is the key before actions.

If you don't mind me asking, why ask that question?

@smileyourprecious2016, i agree

Depends on how he is talking to them. If he is flirting yes I would because it it's still a form of cheating