So yesterday I found out that my partner and father of my two kids and unborn baby kissed another…

Try work through it. Not for the sake of the children, but for yourself. It's so hard, but be strong. And make sure you eat something for baby xxx

Oh this is horrible. I'm so sorry your going through something like that. He should at least be bloody honest about it, he owes you that much. X

I don't want us to split up but I don't think I'll ever be able to be intimate with him again knowing hes had another woman. He's broke my heart, I'm pregnant and he does this to me. its lowest of the low. xxx @charlottegilbert

Is there any chance this woman could be lying? xxx

@suzie31 He was crying about it, he said he was crying because he's so angry that she's saying this but I know he's crying because the guilt is killing him, he sees how it's effected me and he's gutted with himself. He's adamant its not happened but how would she know about the mole on his groin area. She's no reason to lie to me either, She actually cheated on her partner too and she told her partner the truth. She's not going to ruin her own relationship because of a lie. I honestly don't know what to do or how to deal with this xxx

Oh my god I'm so sorry babe! If I found that out about my OH personally I would have to end it, I would never be able to trust him again and id never be able to be intimate with him again...cx

@lexifindlay I don't think I will be able to get intimate with him again , I will never trust him but we've been together for a lot of years and there's kids involved. Aw my heads mashed xxx

Yeah I get what you mean, Im not actually with my OH anymore because I found out he was lying and stupid little things and not having any trust there made t so so hard... But only you know what's right!,,

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Many people give partners a second chance & it works out. It's not something I could do. But you can't even start to work things out or forgive him if he's not being honest about it. 1. He's cheated & 2. He's lying about it.... If your adamant she's telling the truth. Which is just as insulting as the cheating itself!

Me personally I would give him 1chance to own up and tell the honest truth, if he doesn't pack his shit and chuck him out. It's hard I know that but if he doesn't tell the truth then it shows how little respect he has for you! You can only work through issues if the truth is given and worked on. Good luck @kim.m.

you obviously love this man and he is your kids father. The other girl sounds like a massive trouble maker. whether your partner done it or not, she has no rights coming to you with that. you say she's in a relationship too, well if she wanted to tell her partner fine. but why's she coming to you? She obviously doesn't have respect for you in the first place to do what she done so she can't pretend it's out of respect. my heart absolutely breaks for you. xx

I cannot believe what I'm reading.....BOTH parties are in the wrong! ^ Personally as difficult as it is, I'd end it. I went through this and I found that if you give that chance, they will more than likely take advantage and do it again. I'm here if you need to talk Kim xxx

I agree with @zoeleigh to an extent. I'd end it, personally, but thinking about my children and future one, I'd give him a chance to own up like a MAN. I know this is going to be hard. But if he still denies even after confrontation with proof from that other girl, just end it. you're better off without him, he'll cheat his way out again (if he's given the chance) and when you know about it again, you'll be more heartbroken than you are now. xx

I personally wouldn't be able to carry on the relationship @kim.m. who's to say it won't happen again or hasn't in the past and once trust has gone for me then it's gone forever. I too wouldn't be able to be intimate again, infact I couldn't be in the same room as him. the fact that he's still not being honest as well says it all really. if he's not willing to accept responsibility or acknowledgement, how can you both move forward until he does? I'm so sorry you are going through this at the moment. inbox me if you wanna chat to a stranger xx

my partner lied to me for 3 years about sleeping with another girl, I only found out in November. we have stayed together and so far so good xxx

could it be a jealous ex? xx