Three months ago my sons dad and I ended things due to domestic violence. I filed charges we went to court and everything. Since then I only meet him in public places so he can see Aiden (our son). I do not leave him alone with him ever. I recently got into it with his mother physically not I'm going thru the same shit with her that I did with him. I was meeting with aiden dad at her house to go to the park she was already outside when I got there. An argument turned into her fist to my face. I'm tryna keep this post short as possible sorry if it's long. But with that being said. If you felt you are always being placed in a violent situation would you go through the court so he can get visitation rights or still try to settle outside of court? Although it wasn't his fault he tried to stop it and even defended me. It wasn't him this time it was her but I still feel some type of way about it. he still thinks we can go back to just meeting in public places without going to court but idk. What do you guys think?
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@babes101116 I have order of protection on her to stay away from me and my son temporily until the court date
I would go thru the courts, and make sure its on record. one day she can try to get visitation rights and if you don't want to let your son around her, you'll have proof of why if you get it on record.
I would definitely begin by meeting the dad places like the park so he can see his son. and not allow her around him for awhile and eventually MAYBE let her start joining the meetings in public places.
See if you can get the papers changed to say she's not allowed contact because of her violent nature. Then you can call the cops on her if she does show up
it was til she butted in! she has a way of getting in his head but for her own benefit. she is upset she doesn't get to see my son . I just don't trust her so I don't leave my son there with either of them. I only discus with him and meet with him. I don't think it's that important for him to see her and now after this I want nothing to di with her at all! @babes101116
I think you guys should agree on changing your meeting place. keep distance from the mom.
Agree on a new place to meet and make him swear not to tell his mother or you take his rights away. It's not safe for you or your son. This has to be between you two only.
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