been one of those days... one of the days that make me question my pregnancy and how this relationship with affect the…

Children are definitely a test on the relationship almost left my husband right after my son was born because he basically was never around the first three months. Men do not understand how to adjust, they do eventually get the hang of it though.

maybe... who knows.. I'm seriously thinking of all my options at this point... this is my rainbow baby I've had 2 miscarriages.. and I thought he was it and we decided to start a family I get pregnant and now I "don't communicate" with him enough when we both work full time jobs and different hours

I don't think he's ready for this.. I try my hardest to talk to him but I feel he never listens either way

try not to stress over it. just go with the flow of things and then your eyes will start to open to whats real. i still till this day will never understand the male mind. some adjust perfectly and some take a little longer.

agree with all of you. and @laurawendel you need to put thr @ and then names pop up to tag the person you are talking to otherwise theu dont know you replied.. its dumb but thats how it is.. lol

@laurawendel, I think most of us feel that way at one point. My husband was so excited at first and started treating me special for the first time in years, now that the newness has worn off he's starting to act "selfish" again. I can't handle it and it stresses me out. He just has no sympathy for me whatsoever unless he's having a good day. And I hate saying that about him because he does try at times but it's just so hurtful to have to feel so alone all the time.

yes @morganmommy79 @kayla471 @bugmama today he's being nice.. yesterday it was because he worked 21hrs in 2 days

and we didn't talk much those 2 days