I Understand It's Your Baby And You Do What You Want, But People Kill Me Trying To Be Very Discreet On Pictures After…

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Then it's like for all of that you should've kept your whole pregnancy to yourself then

Personally I'm not posting my child on social media for a while. I'll make an exception for this site because we are all moms and that's basically what we are here for going through things together so it's only right. But Facebook won't get any pics from me for a while. And even if I do post I won't be flooding my newsfeed with pictures of my child that most of my FB friends will never see in person. I just don't feel right about it if I haven't seen you in 5 years or more. But I will gladly send out pictures of my baby to ppl who I associate with and family who can't make it to see her right away.

Lol exactly. Like you've kept us updated your entire pregnancy, but soon as the baby gets here, you go into hiding. @mommygreene

Yea that's understandable. I will share pics on Facebook only because I use Facebook for family and friends from school. But I also feel like if the person has the mindset to be discreet, then be discreet about the entire pregnancy. @desi720

Yeah, I just don't get it. Don't be fake when your baby come but posted pictures when you was just 8 hours pregnant.

That's true i use this app to discuss my pregnancy. So I don't feel the need to share too much on Facebook. All they may know is that I'm pregnant and I'm having a girl. I barely wanted to expose the sex because ppl just like to be nosy and hate. I would delete ppl but that's to petty or create a new account but I have a lot of close family members from out of town I like to keep up with. I agree with you. If ppl constantly take you through there whole pregnancy and don't show the baby when it's time that's petty AF. Lol

Wys! Lol

Girl this is so true

Why does it matter when somebody decides to post pictures of their baby? Who cares if people ask to see

@jadasmommy_, 👌🏾yup and I agree with @desi720 but I'm more likely to share on FB since I'm friends/close associates with everyone On there than here.

😂😂 8 hours @mommygreene

Lol exactly! @desi720

Reread my post and read through the comments and you'll understand what I said. @jadasmommy_

But you post your whole pregnancy on here though? So wouldn't it be more like a connection thing on here as well @godsjoi

Lol I'm just saying like people be on here posting mucus plugs and asking all types of questions and showing belly shots and can't show your baby? @mommygreene I mean idc either way but I would've kept my advice to my self (if it applied) since they wanna be bougie.

Lol I tagged myself @mommytobe0821

If We're being updated on doctors appointments, ultrasound pics, Babyshower pics, how you feeling, your sex life, when you go into labor, etc, why wouldn't you share pictures of your baby. Like I said, not right away but at some point in time we expect you to. If not, keep all that yourself..

@mommygreene, lol

For some people, yes I can understand, but I rarely post on preggie 😕lol. I post on my FB & IG

So if you've been posting about your pregnancy the whole time on FB & IG and your baby comes and everybody's all excited to see her, and asking where's the pics, and you post nothing, wouldn't that be kinda fucked up? That's all I was saying in my post.. @godsjoi

@mommygreene, I tagged you this time. Lol

100% 👏👏

I totally understood your post and point of view, but I also understand why people don't post photos right away. I was that way with my daughter. It wasn't weeks or anything, but 2-3 days or so had passed. Maybe a little longer- once we were situated at home and such.

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Those type just want someone to beg lol Ain't nobody begging for no baby pictures, #FOH

I'm with you on that. I'm not posting pictures of my baby right away either, but it's a girl I went to school with and 2 weeks have passed but she has yet to post pictures. I just think that's really absurd. Especially because she's been posting about her pregnancy since she was 9 weeks pregnant. @godsjoi

Lol that's what I'm doing I'm not posting my son on social media until I get ready nobody but family will know I had him but that's just me ion believe posting every single thing on the Internet

Lol right! I'll ask once and that's it. @tayek

@babyj0916, lol true. Atleast you not hyping people up just to let them down.

Noooo I'm not going to do that I know what you talking about tho, they post hand pics and pics of the baby hair but no baby I hate that myself that's really stupid af, if you gon post that post the damn baby

Most of em just want attention 🙄

There's 4 pics of my son on Facebook. I shared him more here at Preggie because these girls went thru pregnancy with me. I don't do FB much, I just post a pic each month there so distant fam and friends could see him. But I didn't drag them thru 9 months of symptoms either 😂😂😂

Lawwwwwd a mercy lol @mommytobe0821

😂 I swear I watched something like that happen. This girl was doing a sip and see for her baby, but she posted on Facebook and never showed the face. It'll be the pajamas, back of the head, pinky finger, etc. talkin about she wanna wait until the sip and see, I'm like bih you coulda kept them pictures, fuck I wanna see your baby onesie for? 😂😂 @babyj0916

Right! That's exactly how it should be @tayek

Lol see what I dun started? 😂 @mommygreene

Exactly we know how fingers and onesies look, bih we wanna see that baby

I share pics of my baby on here but not on Twitter ONLY because there are family members that my bf and i no longer speak to that literally STALK us on social media like making profiles with fake names n shit and I have a feeling they will take the pics and repost them like "my grand baby!!" When they're not part of his life. But I post a shit ton on here!

Now that I do understand. @emkasting

But I definitely see where you're coming from! For sure!

I'm glad you do. Like I didn't want to throw shade to anybody or anything. I just had something to say. @emkasting

Oh I get it haha I didn't take it that way at all, that's just my situation and I hate it cause I really wanna share pics for people that would like to see them and not repost them or something like that. I don't have a Facebook or anything so Twitter and this app are the only social medias I keep up with. Sucks to not be able to post pics of him because I'm worried about his pics being stolen 😒😒 smh

Yea I wish it was a way around that.. @emkasting

agree 100% if you're posting about the whole pregnancy then it doesn't make much sense to me to try to be discrete once baby is born.

Exactly. Makes no sense. @michellevaldez4750