I really wish they didn't make porn... it seems like all my husband cares about is porn. that really…

I feel your pain love, I went through that with my husband and it didn't change until I threatened to leave him and he got his act together

I've told my husband multiple times I didn't like him watching it and all he can say is okay I'll stop watching it then he watches it behind my back he'll go to the bathroom and watch it. it makes me upset.

I believe porn destroys families

it sounds like he is addicted. a lot of people actually desk with this. it's so sad... I refused to marry my husband if he didn't not control it. we are Christians so it is a sin because it is considered adultery. I didn't care before we were engaged but after I knew it was wrong. we talked about it one night and discussed how I get that it's just a mindless release for him nothing more but it means so much more to God and me for that matter. I mean it was every single time I was not around....even if I was just going to the restroom. He's gotten a lot better. I still talk to him about respect, love, and boundaries

I told my husband if I caught the shit on his phone we were done. he used to watch it all the time and I told him if that's what makes him happy and gets him off he doesn't need me and I damn sure don't need him. I wouldn't have sex with him or anything until I knew for sure he quit. we have 2 kids together now and I will still leave his ass. I can't stand to be downgraded like that. Idk I am sorry you are going through it. it may be time to really put your foot down. I know it's not easy but yoy don't deserve it. it's different when couples are okay with it but when one person is not the other should respect that

I'm sorry you're dealing with this. My husband watches it too. I didn't like it at first, but sometimes I'm just not in the mood and for him it's just stimulation. Not anything to do with him not being attracted to me. We watch it together sometimes even. I wouldn't attack him about it. Ask him why he watches it. Then go from there.

I feel every time he looks at that my body just isn't good enough. I told him after I have hayden that things better change. I do feel it's wrong for him to do this to me. I do believe it can ruin families. I don't trust him when he's alone because I don't know what he's doing. one night I was asleep and he was laying next to me I happen to wake up to him playing with his shelf and looking at it. that destroyed me. even if I do give it to him every night he still looks at it. I believe he is addicted to it too.

My hubby use to keep it from me way back in the beginning and I hated it but I found by watching it with him made him feel like he didn't have to hide it and now years years later he doesn't even look at it or watch it I think the last time was three years ago and it was my idea .. I'd rather participate then him feel he needs to hide it cuz he is embarassed ..

I just don't like the whole fact that he's looking at females naked. he always get a turn on when he sees them naked.

Omg i could not agree more with this status!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

exactly

I second what @showersoverflowers about the addiction. It can be a real struggle and professional help may be required, but first a willingness to want to change. If y'all are spiritual, I would definitely seek guidance in that aspect. So sorry that you have to deal with this. Stand your ground, honey!

oh I will. I'm standing my ground on this one.

my husband did the same thing until i threaten to leave him if he didn't stop then he straightened up really quick

I just sat down and talked to mine and he said he's trying really really hard to stop.