I just have to rant real quick.
I live in nc with my husband, and my family lives in Illinois. I get that my mom wants to see her grand baby and everything but when you're suggesting that you come here for a MONTH right after the baby is born to "help" me I'm going to have to disagree... Let me get my time with my baby girl and create a bond with her before I have you hovering over me trying to teach me how to take care of my baby. My husband gets leave for the baby, and I'm sure we can manage ourselves.... I'm just really irritated that she told me she was going to do that... I appreciate her wanting to help but I know I'll just be way more over whelmed and irritated with her here. Especially if she's going to be living off us for a month 🙄