Hello Mommies, alright this might be a TMI post but here goes so my husnd and i had out beautiful baby girl in January when i had her i tore 4th degree so i was stitched up so we could have sex for 6 weeks after that, well in that time i noticed i had poo coming out of places it shouldnt have been so i we t in and told the doc well he said he didnt see anything wrong so he said wait a while see if it heals okay so my 6 week checkup comes around and i tell him i am still having the problem (this is after i have gone back in once before because i knew there was something wrong) still at my 6 week check up he said there was nothing wrong so i went in to my primary doctor he told me to keep getting on him about it so for 2 weeks i called bothering them talking to a nurse being prescibed things for possoble infection so finally said i needed to come back in well that time he found a hole this is after 8 weeks of having my daughter . so i had to go get surgery for that to fix it well it took another 6 weeks to heal okay so now its been about 4 weeks since we got the okay to have sex well i have NO sex drive none at all. is it because of what i went through or do u think i need something if thete is anything that helps you have a sex drive or what?!?! im not sure i love my husband and am very mich attracted to him amd we do not have marriage problems. anyome ever have this problem? ( sorry for the long post)
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Im 6 weeks pp im not into it yet either and I haven't had all your issues...i know time will come when im not so exhausted
@samijoysayes i feel horrible about it but just not into it. like i dont even have an urge to.
I didn't have your complications. But I tore bad inside and was stitched so I'm scared to have sex. Im 2 months pp but at my 6 weeks they told me they feel a scar so I had to wait another 2 weeks. Well I'm good now I guess but still just not into it. Which upsets my BF and makes me feel horrible
im sorry coulsdnt have sex amd then i am sure i love my husband the im not sure should have had a . after it amd say I love my husband.
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