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sometimes I feel like my husband is a good man but he's not the man for me 😔😔😔😔😔

sometimes I feel like my husband is a good man but he's not the man for me 😔😔😔😔😔

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shwayzelovee

mashaundaМама сына (1 год), беременна (29 нед.)

He can't act like that. You wouldn't be coming to him complaining if he wasn't. What do YOU want to do?

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mrshamilton830

NeshaМама троих детей

I'm always calm he just never thinks he does anything wrong @shwayzelovee

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shwayzelovee

mashaundaМама сына (1 год), беременна (29 нед.)

Why does it always end up with y'all arguing? Whenever you come to him about a problem are you coming at him in a nice or attacking way? I know when i come to my SO about a problem and he's it...I have to speak calmly at him (even if I don't want to) but I feel like that's the way only way guys will actually listen instead of hearing you is when you baby talk them. It sucks but it worked on my end. Are y'all constantly arguing?

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mrshamilton830

NeshaМама троих детей

@shwayzelovee, he's a good man but it's like I fell like I'm walking on eggshells.because whenever I have a problem and try to talk to him it always ends up with us mad at each other not talking and I shouldn't feel uncomfortable talking to my husband about anything but I do because I know the end result

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shwayzelovee

mashaundaМама сына (1 год), беременна (29 нед.)

Well how long as this problem been going on? And if you brought it up multiple times and there is still no change, I would stop doing what I'm doing. When guys see change in their woman that's when they want to be concerned. I would do that first but if you're unhappy ...then you should know what to do. I know it's easier said than done.

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lakota-winyan

dawnВ ожидании первенца

fight for it then.. my husband and I were great before, now it's hard, but I know it's worth it. hormones are something else.

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mrshamilton830

NeshaМама троих детей

@dawnrose, no I didn't, we were fine before pregnancy

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lakota-winyan

dawnВ ожидании первенца

can you imagine life without him? is it just pregnancy hormones? did you feel this way before pregnancy?

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mrshamilton830

NeshaМама троих детей

@shwayzelovee, how do you know when it's worth fighting for

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shwayzelovee

mashaundaМама сына (1 год), беременна (29 нед.)

I felt the same way in my relationship but I wasn't going to give up. Communication should be the easiest thing to do In a relationship but sometimes however, I do feel it be the man's fault because we are two different people when it comes to how we talk. I fight for my relationship. I hope things get better between you too. A relationship is a full time job I ain't gone lie. Keep your head up!

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momof5lovebugs

Jessica HallМама четверых детей, беременна

I'm so sorry mama! I hope things get better. I know what it's like to feel that way. I almost walked away from my marriage after my last child was born. we ended up going to marriage counseling and now everything is so much better

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mrshamilton830

NeshaМама троих детей

@momof5lovebugs, he makes me feel like that he doesn't know how to communicate and I just feel like we aren't equal partners in this marriage

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momof5lovebugs

Jessica HallМама четверых детей, беременна

ahw mama why would you feel like that?! r u ok

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