some of y'all really be in y'all feelings about others trying to induce their labor early n trying…

JUST SAID THIS ON SOMEONES POST YESTERDAY TO ALL THE MOMS TELLING HER SHE NEEDS TO STOP.

@mommyofdoubletrouble, yes then they be making themselves frustrated cause somebody don't wanna listen to them, like who cares its not your problem 😑😑😑

So telling someone that it's not recommended to self induce before 39 weeks is bad... What if they didn't know? Why is it wrong to give someone the facts about it?

i totally freaking understand if she doesnt care that her baby will be born and brought immediately to nicu then Thats her. i hate suffering but its all worth it. my first was born at 41w and this one will be scheduled csection at 39 weeks. i have NO problem waiting lol.

@mommagotbump16, im saying you can say what you wanna say to them but that don't mean they gone listen n other doctors say different things, people gonna do what they want regardless soo why get so up tight when somebody doesn't wanna listen 😶😶😶

No one ever told her she was a horrible mom at all and definently not telling her what to do with her body .. They were more causionary statistics of personal experiences and also I'm pretty sure we all know trying to induce your own labor at 33 weeks is a huge no no .. Aren't we all in agreement bringing home a baby when we leave the hospital is ideal if it can be done ??? A 33 weaker can't lung maturity is not developed at all .. Especially in a boy a white boy

@mommagotbump16, ur right they were simple helpful facts so she thought twice .. It's extremely dangerous but it's her body and she has to deal with the ramifications her own way some people can't take educated advice they take it wrong and end up hurting them selves or In this case let's hope not her baby but to each their own

@10yearslater0205, idc bout none of that I'm talking from my perspective of seeing different post everyday, n any child can be born with health issues not jus a white kid

@mommyofdoubletrouble, rite at least you get it lol

@kaydhenrhyleisworld, she wasn't saying that only white kids have problems. Nursery and L&D nurses will tell you that Caucasian boys can be slower to be delivered, slower to recover from issues at delivery. The ones that are the "fighters" are African American girls.

This is very true but why try to cause an issue .. I think when the comments started flying they were simply just trying to help her and she unfortunately took it as a beating in which if u go re read they weren't at all .. And ur so very right she's gonna do what she wants to do anyway . We were all trying to help spare her that pain of nicu from those that have been there it's a touchy subject all around .. She's trying to have a baby early for no reason yet I'm over here praying to God he lets mine stay in and she doesn't come early .. Because I do know the outcome .. Those comments were coming from good places and she is one who clearly doesn't take good cristisim at all well .. It's sad at 39 I can still learn from anyone why? Because I'm willing to learn and listen .. But to each their own

@mommagotbump16, OH

@10yearslater0205, I could've sworn I jus told you I was talking bout multiple post... but oh to you too 😂😂😂

Sorry I should have specified that .. Like she said African American girls fair best then African am boys, white girls and white boys last .. And ur right any can have trouble my friend delivered her 38 weaker two months ago and he spent two weeks in nicu he had breathing issues

I'm sorry but that's a bit ignorant. There is basically no way to tell if baby is healthy enough to be outside of your womb. Whether it be 35 weeks or 39! That's just endangering your child. I'm lucky my daughter didn't have to be in the NICU born at 36 weeks.

I think the issue is that, this app is meant to encourange and uplift ppl. Yes ots their body, however, stop asking questions that will put you and the baby at risk. We are all hear to help each other from what MOMLIFE promotes, they dont promote ppl being inconsiderate for themselves or their babies the last time I chked. They're moms on here who didnt have a choice but to deliver early and you see their hearts broken and babies still in the hospital ect. @kaydhenrhyleisworld, most times when ppl do that its a cry for help, and if they want to tell her the right thing why not, she defiantly asking for the wrong thing. Should we just bypass her post? If you didn't understand whatthe you were getting into (or the possibilities) of pregnancy then you shouldn't be pregnant and that's my personal thoughts about it. Might as well get a sergeant or something where you can personally make the determination of when its done or over. Would they want raw food (undercooking it) knowing they can and will get sick, same with a baby. Its just riduculous!

U did 😂😂she isn't the only one and most of time I just scroll because some stuff is so stupid but that one caught me off guard because I'm one of those parents who struggles to keep a baby in I mean half the time I shake my head and scroll Right on .. I wasn't trying to be a know it all and never said she was a bad mom .. I surely don't know it all but been through this twice and early labor etc I've heard all the dangers and wanted to share she can do what she wants to do cuz clearly she is 😂@kaydhenrhyleisworld

I just pray the baby comes out fine, and leave it at that. There is way to many people.doing so, and not listening or caring. Preaching to some folks, is like walking up and talking to your dang wall. Matter of fact the wall may listen more. When I see it, I just pray to god the baby doesn't come out with majorly hurt, or come out healthy. So I agree.

@soon_2_be_mom_of_4, exactly like talking to a wall so why keep talking to the wall lmaoo

Well I talk to walls when I am scrubbing, well I curse at them. Espcially if I am trying to get crayon off. LOL.

@soon_2_be_mom_of_4, lol n that's the only time 😂😂😂

@soon_2_be_mom_of_4, I get what y'all are saying, but I think of it like this: if someone was about to walk in front of a car speeding down the road, would you do something? Not being snarky here...that's how I feel about this. Normally I'm all for live and let live, but when someone could be endangering themselves or their child, I'm gonna speak up.

@mommagotbump16, Yes I would totally do something, and I am not saying don't speak up. Because yes maybe they don't know, or was ill imformed. However I wouldn't keep wasting your breath, but save your words for someone who will listen. It doesn't hurt to try, not at all. There is ways of being tactful about it, and most of you guys are tactful. However some do get to nasty, and once that happens people refuse to listen. Then agian some people refuse to listen anyway.

This is a VERY unnecessary waist of time reading argument JUST SAYING. At this point idc what ANY mom does if she cant be patient its not my buisness i gave my advice if she dont take it fuck that im not wasting another moment trynna talk her out of something. Nope Sorry Fuck that ima just continue scrolling through the dumb ass post and keep it going.. Im Not being harsh by any means either cause my son did have certain problems so i do know what its like but like i said to EACH IS OWN.

@mommyofdoubletrouble, 😂😂😂😂😂

see I haven't said nothing back lol now I got all these comments on my post😑😑😑😑