Any moms out there plan an "accident" ? π As in stop taking your pill and not tell hubby or something along those lines? My first was a true accident. I kind of had that mentality that it wouldn't happen to me. My second was truly an accident as well. This next baby will be planned but took a long while of impatiently waiting for hubby to be "ready". I'd I had been on the pill instead of Mirena, I probably would have stopped taking it since I know we both agreed we WANT another. We just didn't agree on WHEN. thankfully he came around and were on the same page so I took it out.
I know this is an old post but I had to comment. my husband and I planned both of our pregnancies. we lied because our living situation wasn't that great and we weren't (still arent) financially stable but we didn't want to be old when we had kids (30 years old is what most wanted) and we didn't want our kids to be too far apart in age. so we tried getting pregnant. only a select few know that we were trying but most think it was an accident cause I told them I was on the pill when I ran out about a month I found out I was pregnant again.
I would never do it if he said he didn't want kids. We were only about 6 months apart on our time line. But if you go back and read, I didn't have to because we compromised and met in the middle. I was just curious because I know some girls have done things like that. @terrilove I had my Mirena for almost 2 years. And never had more than occasional spotting. So I'm expecting it to take about 3-6 cycles before anything happens.
Girl do you. It's your husband. Not like your trapping anyone. Don't listen to people^^
@ssdj4, ours was basically the same situation. We're financially pretty stable. Some months are a bit harder than others. But we wanted our little ones to be close in age