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Okay so I just have to get this out. I will be 24 in a few weeks, my husband and I have been together for almost 9…

Okay so I just have to get this out. I will be 24 in a few weeks, my husband and I have been together for almost 9 years, married for almost six years, and we have 4 beautiful babies together (ages 4, 3, 2, and 3 weeks) Every time I see a pregnant woman I get so jealous! Not as much baby fever as it is like pregnancy envy? Idk. My husband thinks I'm crazy and gets so stressed when I tell him about it. I'd like to say it is a phase, but I've had this feeling since we got married, and it only goes away when I'm pregnant! Am I alone in feeling this way? I'm like addicted to having babies lol 😩 it's funny too because I have high risk, miserable pregnancies resulting in preterm births (33-36 weeks). I'm obsessed with being pregnant, and babies.

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forever223

RachelМама четверых детей

I feel that same way! Like I missed out on a lot. My preemies were not as early as yours I always made it at least 33 weeks, but that's a whole 7 or so weeks still I missed out on each pregnancy :/ and the first days to weeks (longest NICU stay was just a little over a month) of their lives were spent in the hospital. I wonder if feeling "cheated" might have something to do with my envy of pregnant women? I literally will delete or unfollow people on social media if they post about their pregnancy so I don't have to see it and like obsess over it. Ugh 😞

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kimberly_preemie-mom

Kimberly Мама двоих (младенец)

Maybe it's the preterm thing, because I feel like I missed out on a lot of the last bit of my pregnancy (delivered at 29 weeks) and so I missed out on all the big kicks. My itty bitty is still a baby but I already wish I could have another!! I miss being pregnant! (Minus the health complications I had with my second).

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so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her…

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Good morning ladies. Sorry I been ignoring yall but I have been so miserable the past days I'M STILL PREGNANT my…

Good morning ladies. Sorry I been ignoring yall but I have been so miserable the past days I'M STILL PREGNANT my contractions would be strong for hours and it looked like I was gonna have a baby then everything just stopped so I got sent home. they said I have to wait till my appointment Wednesday so I can talk to my doctor about the next step. I HATE THIS 😢😢😩