Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Okay seen this post on Facebook and I reposted is saying "it should be your husband first but most women would say the child" two women responded very negatively like "it is your child first smh" and "what is his hands broken he should fix his own plate" but I'm a Christian and in the Bible says your husband comes first then the children no I'm not talking about a boyfriend nothing I'm saying a husband when he gets off work he should be the first one to receive that hotmail he's been at work all day what do you ladies say everyone has a different take on things
Did he cry? When you got married and when your child/children where born, did your husband cry?
How yu gonna argue with me because i find child support stupid af if the father takes his child has a roof over his head and food in his fridge when he has the kid why does he need to pay you so you have a roof over your head and your bills are paid isnt that your job as a mother. Not fair that a man has to make sure he has everything for himself and his baby at his place and take care of his baby mommas "bills". Smh. To each its own but to argue with me about my opinion. Tf get out my face with that bullshit.
I'M being irrational?! ??? The father of my child (I'm 18 weeks pregnant) says I'm being irrational because I won't get an abortion. I'm almost 5 months and he's still trying to convince me to get one! What the f*ck?! He decided two weeks after I told him that he wants nothing to do with me or baby. I tried for maybe two weeks after that to speak to him but he kept treating me like sh*t so I stopped. I haven't done anything or tried talking to him since and he' avoided me at all costs up until a few days ago. He sent me a text asking if we can talk. I said ok and the first words out of his mouth as I walked up to him were, "I'm never gonna see the baby or be there for him. You know that right?" I was like wtf? "That's what you wanted to tell me? You kinda made that pretty clear already." He then proceeded to say he thought that by acting like a jerk I would have had an abortion. And how can I bring a child into the world that won't have a dad. And it looks horrible in his culture. How can I do that to him? What if he looks for him later? And how is he gonna feel knowing he has a child out there somewhere that's his? I told him that's not my problem and it's his guilt to carry because I'm having my baby boy. If he changes his mind and wants to see him he knows how to contact me as I would never try to keep him away from his child. It's up to him. Starting asking me if my friends are "egging me on." Lol. Um...I have a mind of my own. I told him I'm not like him. His family and friends are putting sh*t in his head. They all hate that I'm pregnant. They hated that he was with me to begin with. He used to say he didn't care what anyone said. But now I see he's just like them. I made it clear I want nothing from him. He saw that he couldn't convince me and started saying I'm being sooo irrational. Really?? I'M being irrational because I don't want to kill my baby?? My God...the ignorance is strong with this one.
neik·
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I been there done that. My husband is currently on my block list and do you think I give a damn. Nope. If he don't care about my feelings due to his insecurities then why should I care. He want to act like an ass so he is now in time out like an ass.
Katelyn·
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i was going to comment but @deavers, said it all😂🙌 I wouldn't put up with that either tho. This is when you should feel Most Beautiful and he should see you as Most Beautiful because y'all created life together❤
Chantel·
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my husband wrote me this after leaving for the Army, and I'm showing this because this is how your husband should feel about you every fucking day!!! now I'm not saying my husband is all that because God knows he is a handful!!! but you are way to beautiful to not have great partner!! every women needs a great man in their life. and @lilmomma1415 is right it will only get worse not just for you but for your baby. If he is okay with putting you down then he will be okay with your baby down when they get older the best thing you can give yourself and your baby is the gift of leaving him and one day a real man will come into your life and teach your little one what love is from a father that isn't blood and that real man will teach you what it feels like to be beautiful without even being told!!
vada jean·
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I'd leave beautiful it will only get worse
destiny·
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@deavers,
destiny·
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Lol thank you that made me feel a little better and no he don't deserve me
Chantel·
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my husband wouldn't dare talk to me like that or he would get hit just as fast as those words were even to think about coming out of his mouth!!! and if your hubby can't see how beautiful you are pregnant with his child then you don't need that type of man in your life and I promise you there are alot of men out there that love a prego woman lol