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Stephanie
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Ever since I had my baby I have been on a whirlwind of emotions, mostly happy, but also sad, i don't know I just kinda…

Ever since I had my baby I have been on a whirlwind of emotions, mostly happy, but also sad, i don't know I just kinda feel empty. I guess thats the only way I can describe it. I feel like I need to have another baby right away but I know that's an insane thought! I also feel like I need to hold my baby close and never let go. I feel like super duper overly protective of her to the point where I don't want anyone else to come near her not even her father. Am I going crazy or is this completely normal?!

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lillysmom1997

StephanieМама троих детей

@emkasting, yeah my little girl was 3 weeks today. I hope it goes away soon I just want to feel better

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emtackett

emilyМама сына-младенца

I am feeling the exact same way. My baby will be a month old tomorrow and since the feelings haven't subsided at all I think I'm gonna talk to my doc next week

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lillysmom1997

StephanieМама троих детей

@roleysmomma16, I'm so relieved that I'm not the only one! Would it be ok to message you??

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rileysmomma16

StephanieМама дочки-младенца

I went through the same thing. The first 2 weeks were the hardest for me. It may be ppd but I deny that it is and just tell myself it's cause it's my first baby. But like you said I still feel empty, and alone. My little girl is the only thing that brightens my days.

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lillysmom1997

StephanieМама троих детей

I talked to my doc and she was like oh ur fine take time for yourself bye

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jessnichole

jessnicholeМама двоих (младенец)

Sounds like you may have a touch of ppd

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