when is the best time to have more kids?? i don't want my kids far in age, but then again i don't wanna overwhelm myself.
@shelsynikkol I feel ya! we started trying when my daughter was 2yrs old but it took us 8 years to conceive.
@mamabearto2cubs, i feel like i'm too impatient to wait 10 years! lol. i want them to kinda grow up together. my 2 1/2 year old niece loved it when i was pregnant and now she's so obsessed with my son! @showersoverflowers i think that's what we might do. when i was pregnant i wanted to wait like 5 years because i was just so done with being pregnant lol but now that he's born and actually thinking about it i don't wanna wait that long. i am a VERY impatient person.
That's the age gap that i like. Good luck to you with expanding your family
@arivera64, i know everyone has different opinions i just wanted to know what everyone else thinks is good. some people think like 5 years apart or more, or like a year apart. me and my brothers are like about 3 years apart. i'm thinking i might do like a 1 1/2-2 years apart. if it doesn't happen sooner accidentally
it honestly depends on the family and child. some people do well with spacing kids out further. our kids are 2 years apart and both are boys. I think it was the best decision for them in our situation
to each is own, but i'm so happy that my daughter is 10yrs old and our son will be here soon. she has got to experience everything and understand completely. she cries feeling her baby brother kick and see him on ultrasound. it makes me so excited to see her so happy about becoming a big sister!
That's something that is unique to each person. Everybody has a differsnt idea of good timing. I like my kids 2 yrs apart. Close enough to enjoy the same things, but far enough that one is gaining more independence
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
I feel sad for kids when I hear parents that don't vaccinate.. Why put your kid at risk of dying from a preventable disease?
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Due date
How likely are you to actually give birth on your due date, especially with your first kid? I don't want him to come on his exact due date because I don't want him to share a birthday with a certain someone.
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@mamabearto2cubs, omg. i'm sorry it took that long 😅 i got pregnant fast trying to convince my son now so hopefully i have good luck next time too! i'm nervous to even have sex again because i don't wanna get pregnant right away and i have bad luck with birth control so i'm not getting on it.